We all want a strong inner circle – and the good news is, we can all have one. But intentionality is the key, and time is the only way.

We adore every person in our inner circle of friends. With each of them, we’ve built a unique, irreplaceable history that has woven us together and formed a strong bond of lifelong friendship. For us, they’re inner circle because we know they value who we are. They’re available when we fall apart and they’re the first to celebrate when you get a win. When we hurt or misunderstand each other, they’re willing to have hard, vulnerable conversations. They trust my heart, and we trust theirs. But we think what we love most is that we’re invested in each other. We know they want us to thrive as much as they want to thrive themselves. But each friendship has taken intentionality and time to build. We didn’t always share these values. Life happened and we chose them together.

How do I know that my inner circle will show up for me, celebrate me, and have hard conversations with me? Because either they always did, or when they didn’t we had a conversation about it and worked out a shared value (Often in tears and high pitched shaky voices). Sometimes it was easy, and sometimes it took a little negotiation. But with every person in my inner circle, one thing is consistent – we stuck it out. We chose each other. We built. And because of it, over time we developed a rock-solid trust and irreplaceable friendship.

We always have the power to choose and to build, both in new and existing friendships. We strike gold when we find others who want to build with us too. If you’re worried about whether or not you have an inner circle, look around you. Your world is full of amazing people – who will you build with?

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