Breaking things off—whether it’s a casual fling, a full-blown situationship, or something you should’ve left weeks ago—can get tricky. And today, Jenny and Ashley are spilling all the tea on how to end things with grace (or, let’s be real, with a little bit of trial and error).

From knowing when you owe someone a conversation to when ghosting is actually the right move, they’re covering all the unwritten rules of saying adieu. Plus, Jenny shares the unexpected way her last situationship ended, Ashley’s been going through it, and the girls dive into some truly unhinged Reddit questions about breakups.