Getting pregnant, again? What could possibly go wrong?
In Season Two of It's Getting Mom In Here, we’re diving into Milo’s story. In this episode, Kori shares what it was like to try again after losing her son Stanley—including a miscarriage, a chemical pregnancy, and yet another unexpected congenital heart defect diagnosis.
She opens up about the emotional chaos of pregnancy after loss, the rollercoaster of hope and heartbreak, and what it means to walk through it all with honesty, vulnerability, and just enough dark mom humor to survive it.
If you’ve experienced baby loss, TFMR, CHD, miscarriage, or are parenting after trauma, this is the space for you.
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00:00 Welcome to Season Two
02:06 The Journey of Milo Begins
03:54 Navigating Loss and New Beginnings
05:48 Experiencing Miscarriage and Heartbreak
08:41 The Emotional Toll of Pregnancy Loss
10:15 Finding Hope Amidst Uncertainty
13:09 Facing Heart Defects: A New Challenge
16:14 Understanding the Diagnosis
19:02 Genetic Testing and Family Connections
21:29 The Complexity of Choices
22:44 Reflections on Sharing Milo's Story
Taylor is finally back on the show!! Kori and Taylor continue to dive into deeply personal and sensitive topics surrounding miscarriage, infant loss, and the emotional complexities of naming a child who is not expected to survive. They pick up where they left off last episode and talk about the stillbirth of their son, Stanley.
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miscarriage, infant loss, pregnancy, termination, depression, anxiety, personal stories, emotional journey
Taylor is finally on the show! Kori and Taylor dive into deeply personal and sensitive topics surrounding miscarriage, infant loss, and the emotional complexities of naming a child who is not expected to survive. The discussion emphasizes the importance of mental wellbeing and the heavy emotional burden that comes with these experiences.
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miscarriage, infant loss, pregnancy, termination, depression, anxiety, personal stories, emotional journey
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Setup
02:25 The Journey to Parenthood
05:41 Facing Unexpected Challenges
09:25 Navigating Difficult Decisions
12:45 The Emotional Rollercoaster
15:40 Preparing for Goodbye
25:47 Reflecting on the Experience
Kori reflects on life after the loss of her son, Stanley. She shares how she and her husband navigated grief, from finding moments of joy amid deep sorrow to planning a meaningful celebration of life. Kori talks about family complexities, the healing power of crafting and yoga, and the importance of creating personal rituals to honour loss. This episode is a testament to the coexistence of love and grief and finding your way forward in the hardest times.
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Content Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including pregnancy termination, medical decision-making, and potential complications during pregnancy. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find these topics triggering or emotionally challenging.
Keywords motherhood, pregnancy, trying to conceive, negative pregnancy tests, online forums, joy of pregnancy, sharing the news, finding a midwife, pregnancy loss, abortion, pregnancy termination, ultrasounds, tfmr, termination for medical reasons, grief, parenting, loss, support, birth experience, mental health, family, coping strategies, postpartum, healing, yoga, crafting, celebration of life.
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Kori shares her deeply personal journey through the birth and loss of her son, Stanley. She reflects on the emotional complexities of motherhood, grief, and the importance of language in navigating loss. Kori discusses the support from family, the bittersweet moments spent with her son, and the challenges of returning home after such a profound experience. She emphasizes the need for understanding and compassion in conversations about loss and highlights her journey towards healing and finding purpose in her grief.
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Content Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including pregnancy termination, medical decision-making, and potential complications during pregnancy. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find these topics triggering or emotionally challenging.
Keywords motherhood, pregnancy, trying to conceive, negative pregnancy tests, online forums, joy of pregnancy, sharing the news, finding a midwife, pregnancy loss, abortion, pregnancy termination, ultrasounds, tfmr, termination for medical reasons, grief, parenting, loss, support, birth experience, mental health, family, coping strategies, postpartum, healing
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Context
01:58 The Birth Experience
04:24 Navigating Grief and Language
07:45 Family Visits and Support
16:50 Cherishing Moments with Stanley
24:03 Saying Goodbye
28:34 Returning Home and Coping
32:45 Finding Purpose in Grief
Kori shares her emotional journey through pregnancy, miscarriage, and the decisions surrounding the loss of her baby. She discusses the sensitive topics of infant loss, the choices she faced regarding delivery methods, and the importance of connecting with her baby during the final days. Kori also reflects on the significance of naming her child and the preparations leading up to the induction, all while navigating the complexities of grief and emotional turmoil.
Content Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including pregnancy termination, medical decision-making, and potential complications during pregnancy. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find these topics triggering or emotionally challenging.
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motherhood, pregnancy, trying to conceive, negative pregnancy tests, online forums, joy of pregnancy, sharing the news, finding a midwife, pregnancy loss, abortion, pregnancy termination, ultrasounds, tfmr, termination for medical reasons
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Context
03:14 The Induction Process Begins
07:53 Arriving at the Hospital
09:53 Waiting and Preparing for Delivery
15:42 The Role of the Midwife
20:39 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Labour
27:32 Epidural and Pain Management
33:18 The Moment of Delivery
38:05 The Birth of Stanley
40:50 Conclusion and Reflection
Kori shares her emotional journey through pregnancy, miscarriage, and the decisions surrounding the loss of her baby. She discusses the sensitive topics of infant loss, the choices she faced regarding delivery methods, and the importance of connecting with her baby during the final days. Kori also reflects on the significance of naming her child and the preparations leading up to the induction, all while navigating the complexities of grief and emotional turmoil.
Content Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including pregnancy termination, medical decision-making, and potential complications during pregnancy. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find these topics triggering or emotionally challenging.
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motherhood, pregnancy, trying to conceive, negative pregnancy tests, online forums, joy of pregnancy, sharing the news, finding a midwife, pregnancy loss, abortion, pregnancy termination, ultrasounds, tfmr, termination for medical reasons
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Announcements
02:41 Facing the End of Pregnancy
07:38 Choosing the Right Induction Method
11:49 Discovering the Baby's Gender
14:56 Creating Lasting Memories
17:27 Preparing for the Induction
22:41 Packing for the Hospital
23:59 Naming our Son
28:24 Emotional Turmoil and Final Preparations
32:41 The Call to the Hospital
Kori opens up about her emotional journey through a high-risk pregnancy, navigating the diagnosis of hypoplastic left heart syndrome for her unborn child. She shares the tough choices, family support, and medical guidance that shaped her experience, offering insight into the complexities of maternal health and the power of empathy in the face of hard decisions.
Content Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including pregnancy termination, medical decision-making, and potential complications during pregnancy. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find these topics triggering or emotionally challenging.
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motherhood, pregnancy, trying to conceive, negative pregnancy tests, online forums, joy of pregnancy, sharing the news, finding a midwife, pregnancy loss, abortion, pregnancy termination, ultrasounds
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00:00 Introduction and Recap
01:25 Receiving Devastating News
15:24 The Three Choices
21:32 The Importance of Compassion and Support
23:13 Making an Informed Decision
In this episode, Kori opens up about her first phone call with the midwife and how they started getting to know each other. She shares her health journey and some of the pregnancy aversions she dealt with. Kori also talks about the early dating scan and the thrill of seeing her baby's heartbeat for the first time. She then dives into the decision-making process around early first trimester screening and why her pro-choice beliefs were so important to her. Kori reflects on the difficult thoughts around possibly terminating a wanted pregnancy and the factors that played into their decision. She also shares the concerns that surfaced during the anatomy scan about the baby's heart. The episode wraps up with Kori anxiously awaiting the results of the echo and what the future might hold.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
02:14 Meeting the Midwife
05:21 Scheduling the First Ultrasound
10:01 Making Decisions about Screening Tests
21:37 Sharing the Pregnancy News
23:41 The Anatomy Scan
36:39 Waiting for Results
In this episode, Kori shares her journey of becoming a mother, including getting pregnant, the diagnosis of her son being very ill, and ultimately losing him. She discusses the pressure to start having kids in her 30s and the factors to consider before starting a family. She talks about her experience of trying to conceive, including the emotional rollercoaster of negative pregnancy tests and the toxic nature of online forums. She also shares the joy of finding out she was pregnant and the excitement of sharing the news with her family. The episode ends with the host finding a midwife and beginning the medical side of her pregnancy journey.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Season Overview
01:32 Navigating the Pressure to Start a Family in Your 30s
05:00 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Trying to Conceive
16:56 The Joy and Excitement of Finding Out You're Pregnant
22:26 Sharing the News of Your Pregnancy with Loved Ones
27:20 Finding a Healthcare Professional for Your Pregnancy Journey
In this season of It's Getting Mom In Here, Kori Frederick shares her deeply personal journey into motherhood, including the heartbreak of losing her son due to a medical condition. She opens up about the pressure of starting a family in her 30s, the emotional highs and lows of trying to conceive, and the overwhelming joy of discovering she was pregnant. But this story takes a poignant turn as Kori bravely discusses the difficult decision to say goodbye to her son, Stanley, through a termination for medical reasons. Join Kori for an honest, raw, and heartfelt conversation that sets the stage for a podcast that’s all about honouring every part of the mom journey—no matter how tough it gets.