How to attract a high-quality girlfriend for busy business owners...Sam emphasizes the importance of learning through osmosis by observing those who excel in different areas of life, whether it’s social skills, business, or dating.
Sam also dives into the nuances of building social circles and getting around influential people. For those struggling to find these "naturals," Sam suggests targeting people in industries like real estate, law, and event promotion, or those who interact with people constantly as part of their job. He advises focusing on social environments where people’s "social calibration" is honed—whether it's bartenders, promoters, or others who have mastered social dynamics.
Throughout the episode, Sam emphasizes that successful socialization is about simplifying the process. He advises against overwhelming oneself with complex plans and instead recommends focusing on building momentum by engaging with new people in familiar environments. Sam’s formula for social success is anchored in being present in social venues, regularly returning to the same spots, and investing in relationships that could change your life dramatically.
Jax and Sam also discuss the importance of maintaining an attractive Instagram profile, calling it the “landing page for your life.” They cover key points like presenting yourself in a way that aligns with your lifestyle, ensuring high-quality photos, and balancing subtlety with confidence in how you portray yourself online.
For agency owners and entrepreneurs, Sam breaks down how building a fulfilling social life can actually help elevate their business, explaining how leveraging wealth to build a network of valuable connections is crucial. He offers practical tips like hosting small social events, leveraging Instagram for outreach, and strategically positioning yourself in spaces where high-value people frequent.
The episode wraps up with a discussion on how to build a fulfilling life across health, wealth, and relationships, challenging the belief that you can’t excel in all areas at once. Sam shares strategies for outsourcing tasks, like meal prepping and gym training, to free up time for socializing and networking. Finally, Sam offers rapid-fire insights on the books and influencers he follows, and gives practical advice for anyone looking to level up their social game.
This episode is packed with actionable insights for those seeking to improve both their social and business lives, emphasizing the power of networks, consistency, and the art of subtlety in personal branding.
00:15 – How to get a high-quality girlfriend
02:30 – Learning from "naturals" and osmosis
05:15 – How to find and connect with high-status people
10:00 – Instagram is life’s landing page: Why it matters
12:00 – The essentials of a strong Instagram profile
16:00 – Breaking social barriers
18:30 – The power of subtlety in your social media presence
21:00 – Why socializing is critical to long-term success
25:30 – Sam’s 7 Pillars of Status: A blueprint for leveling up
30:00 – How agency owners can build a social life
35:00 – Hosting events and building connections
40:00 – Leveraging Instagram and DMs
45:00 – Top books, influencers, and best purchases
55:00 – Building wealth, health, & relationships simultaneously?
01:05:00 – Sam’s 30-day blueprint to rebuild your social life