This episode, I welcome back Justine Cross, a BDSM consultant and dominatrix, and Rena Martine, an intimacy coach and former deputy district attorney to the podcast. Justine and Rena share their expertise in creating safe, shame-free spaces for trauma survivors to explore their sexuality. We explore the concepts of trauma-informed sexual practices, importance of consent, and taking gradual steps in intimate encounters post-trauma. We also discuss frequently asked listener questions, such as how to navigate sexual experiences post-trauma, and emphasize gradual exposure, communication, and understanding one's own desires as pathways to healing and enjoyable intimate experiences.

Watch the Full Video Podcast Here!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 — Intro

01:14 — Meet Justine Cross & Rena Martine

02:24 — Understanding Trauma-Informed Sexuality

03:29 — Practical Steps for Trauma-Informed Practices

04:57 — Creating Safe Spaces for Exploration

06:44 — The Importance of Consent and Communication

07:54 — Finding Community and Support

10:14 — Taking the First Steps Towards Healing

16:03 — AD: Trauma Resourcing Skills Workshop & Trauma Informed Intimacy Skills Workshop

18:23 — Addressing Common Concerns and Questions

25:56 — The Value of Sexual Exploration and Play

38:45 — Keep up with Rena and Justine!

★ Connect with Justine Cross ★

· Connect with Justine Here

· Learn More About Dungeon East

· Follow Justine on IG @thejustinecross

· Watch Justine's Work on YouTube

· Listen to Initiated Survivor: Mistress Justine Cross on Consent, Kink Communities, and BDSM

★ Connect with Rena Martine ★

· Connect with Rena Here

· The Sex You Want by Rena Martine

· Follow Rena on IG @rena.martine

· The Sex Drive Reset: Free Audio Guide

Topics/Triggers:

· Intimacy

· Trauma-informed Intimacy

· Sex Crimes

· Intimacy Coaching

· Trauma Survivors

· Sex Work

· Trauma Therapy

· BDSM

· Sexual Abuse

· Rape

· Spousal Rape

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