
Dedeker Winston was last on the podcast to discuss her somatic practitioner training and how somatic experience can help you on your recovery journey. Today, she shares her story of surviving domestic violence in one of her romantic partnerships. Dedeker talks about what it was like leaving an abusive relationship, the challenges and rewards of practicing non-monogamy, and the importance of community support in healing from trauma. We discuss the harmful stereotypes surrounding victims and perpetrators of abuse and the need for a more nuanced understanding of these dynamics. Dedeker also shares her perspective on the power of embodied experiences of safety and security in healing from trauma. Join us for this powerful conversation on healing, community, and the importance of breaking out of societal norms to find new ways of relating and connecting with others.
Connect with Dedeker:
• Website: https://www.dedekerwinston.com/
• Multiamory Podcast: https://www.multiamory.com/podcast-summary
Topics/Triggers:
• Consensual Non-monogamy
• Domestic Abuse
• Intimate Partner Violence
• The Feeling of Paralysis
• Cognitive Dissonance
• PTSD
• The Image of an Abuser
• Telling Your Partner About Your Trauma
• Finding a Safe, Secure Attachment
• Shame
• Polyamory
• The Variety of Responses from People in Your Life
• Signs of Abuse in a Relationship
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If you or anyone you know is suffering through trauma contact the National Sexual Assault hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or online for 24/7 support. (This podcast is not a replacement for psychotherapy or mental health care. You can obtain a referral for mental health care provider from your primary care physician, or search on Psychology Today’s Find a Therapist directory)
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