This is the story about a group of frogs traveling in the woods when two of them fell into a deep pit.  Instead of trying to help , the others discouraged them from trying to get out until one actually defied them jumped out.  The trick was to ignore the negative messages and considering them cheers instead. The moral of the story is that life and death are in the power of the tongue and each one of us must determine for ourselves the positive messages embedded even in the most negative of circumstances. Be careful of the noises that attract your attention.