Lucky for you, I had a bit of a drive this morning and I used it to riff on exactly why my business is blowing the fuck up… and why so many of you are stuck spinning in circles, waiting for permission you don’t need.
The short version?
I trust myself more than I trust anyone else.
And most of you are still outsourcing your power.
This episode is raw, direct, and probably going to trigger the coaches who rely on codependency to retain clients. But it’s exactly the kind of leadership more people need to hear because this is what actually moves the needle.
Inside, I talk about:
Why my self-trust infrastructure is the reason I scale fast (and keep clients re-signing)
How I made the call to launch Nice Girl Funeral Live even when my mentor said I should wait (we now have 35 tickets left)
The difference between being led vs. being babied
Why I don’t let my clients wait for feedback before they post and why it works
How to stop diluting your results by filtering every decision through someone else’s opinion
What to look for (and change) if your containers are attracting victims instead of leaders
I also break down how I’ve built containers where people fly with or without me, why your clients being scared to disagree with you is a leadership problem, and why your mentor is not your God.
If you’ve been thinking the container is the thing, it’s not.
You are the thing.
You are the ROI.
And you need to start acting like it.