🚨 Trigger Warning: Discussion of autism/ADHD assessments, masking, and experiences of being dismissed by professionals.

You know your child. You know yourself. So why is it that when you try to explain the reality of neurodivergence—whether it’s your own or your child’s—so many professionals, teachers, and even family members just… don’t see it?

This is something I’m dealing with right now as I prepare for Blake’s autism assessment. He’s a high masker, but I see the signs every single day—his struggles with sensory sensitivities, transitions, and self-regulation. Yet, I know that in a short clinical setting, professionals may not see the full picture. And that terrifies me.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever had to fight to be believed, whether for a diagnosis, accommodations, or simply understanding from the people around them.

💬 In This Episode:

✔ Why masking makes autism & ADHD so hard to diagnose

✔ Why professionals often miss the signs of neurodivergence

✔ The emotional toll of being dismissed or invalidated

✔ My fears about Blake’s upcoming autism assessment

✔ How to advocate for yourself (or your child) when no one is listening

🎙 Let’s connect!

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If you’ve ever felt invisible, please know this: Your experience is real, even if others don’t see it. Keep pushing. Keep fighting. Keep trusting yourself.

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