Derek Oaks on Facebook. Julie De Jesus Instagram: @ISeeYouLiving. In this gripping episode of the I See You podcast, we sit down with an elite fighter pilot who opens up about the unexpected side of military life: human connection. From the intense pressure of combat missions to the unrelenting demands of Hell Week as a cadet, he shares what it really means to lead, to survive, and to feel in a culture that often rewards emotional suppression. Through heart-pounding stories from the cockpit and deep personal reflections, he explains how vulnerability, trust, and brotherhood became just as essential as training and precision. This is not just a story about flying jets—it’s a raw, inspiring look at what keeps people grounded when they’re thousands of feet in the air. Whether you're a veteran, a leader, or someone seeking resilience in your own life, this conversation will leave you inspired and more connected to what really matters.