Is this a win for your child… or for you?
What does “successful parenting” really mean today? In this episode, we’re joined by Daphne Iking and Scott’s to talk about how we measure our kids’ progress, why we compare milestones (even when we don’t mean to), and how to check ourselves before our expectations take over.
Are we really supporting our kids—or just projecting? Let’s get honest about what it means to celebrate every win, big or small.Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.
CHAPTERS
00:25 - Welcome Daphne!
01:50 - It’s okay to forget your kid’s ages
07:00 - The preschool guilt on moms
08:40 - What defines “successful parenting”?
10:20 - The education milestones
13:00 - Too early for extra tuition?
14:30 - Fair treatment between siblings
16:30 - Forcing milestones on the eldest
22:00 - Are hand-me-downs unfair?
25:50 - Judging childhood achievements
28:20 - Is studying overseas the standard?
29:30 - Academic standards on your kids
32:30 - Comparing early childhood development
35:30 - Placing healthy expectations
37:30 - Are iPads kids trying to bond?
41:40 - Going against our parent’s dreams
46:00 - Fostering values over careers
50:40 - What is a successful kid?
54:15 - You are what you sow
55:15 - Join us on Telegram!
55:36 - Tutorial: How To Carry Babies