This week we’re rejoined by host and vibes curated Oliver Luke, and aspiring creative director, Mioshi for a very insightful conversation around situationships and commitment. We unpack if it is possible to mourn the ending of a situationship the same way as the ending of a committed relationship, how to avoid situations that lack commitment, and much more.
We also discuss how people end up in situationships and what can be done to avoid unwanted situationships, as sometimes one person wants a relationship and the other person does not. What advice would you give to avoid ending up in a situationship?
Do people prefer situationships because they fear commitment all around? We unpack the fear of commitment in a relationship and how this fear may mirror in other areas of our lives. Oliver has an epiphany and is transparent with us about his reasoning for his fear of commitment. Do you fear commitment? Let us know in the comments.
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This week the trio reunites to keep it short and sweet as we discuss the notion of things we should outgrow by a certain age and role gender plays in this. We also discuss the reality of being in a sexless relationship after giving birth, and how long is too long to go without sex while married or in a relationship. While we understand hormonal changes and other factors that may affect a woman after having a child, we discuss some ways in which both partners can help rekindle the passion in their relationship.

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This week we’re rejoined by our podcast cousin Billy from 25&OverClub to talk all things from main character energy being harmful to those around you to if it’s possible to love unconditionally, and so much more.
While a lot of people encourage main character energy, can it be detrimental to your friends or family who feed into it? Often times when you are the main one being celebrated or who hold the spotlight, it’s easy to treat those who are around you like they’re replaceable. What are your thoughts? Do you have main character energy?
We also pose the question of if adult love should be unconditional or not. Can you truly love someone without conditions and can you unconditionally love someone who conditionally loves you? This one had us speechless, so let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
We close out with a reaction to Letoya Luckett saying she will put her kids before her man in her next marriage. Ladies and gents, what are your thoughts on this?
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This week we’re joined by our podcast cousin Billy from The 25&Over Club Podcast and boy did he flip the script on us! We talk all things from balancing relationships, work, and life to dating after 30, and if one should disclose all details about their past relationships to current suitors. Amidst that, Billy flips the script on us and inquired about Bri’s relationship status. Is Bri single or taken, tune in to find out 👀
While discussing disclosing details of past relationships to current suitors, we discuss if the “less is more” approach is the better way to go to avoid certain behavior like love bombing, manipulation, etc. If we make it known why our past relationship failed or what we tolerated in that relationship, does it make the current suitor think you will also tolerate that behavior from them? Are you giving away cheat codes by disclosing too much? Let’s talk it!
Also, is the dating pool really that bad? While Bri has avoided dating for most of her adult life, Zee has a different experience with dating and thinks it’s easier when you know exactly what you want. What are your thoughts on the dating pool?
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This week we sit down with artist and designer Grafh to talk all things from his lack of financial literacy when he first began making money to qualities that make a good wife, to being the “go to” person to his partner and much more.
We discuss if we are comfortable with going to our partners about any and everything and while Grafh wants to be that person for his significant other, he isn’t comfortable having the roles reversed. He opens up about his lack of trust and vulnerability growing up, and how this may have hindered his trust and vulnerability in adult relationships.
We also dive into his artistry and how music has influenced him and “saved him.” Symphony makes a correlation between his lyrics where he references accomplishments not hitting the same when certain people aren’t here to celebrate with you. Grafh gets candid about his relationship with his parents, his upbringing, and why he makes the music he makes.
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This week we sit down with comedian, actress, and content creator Jasmine Ruiz to discuss all things from being a “girl’s girl” to whether or not they’d allow their significant others to be friends with someone they’ve been physical with in the past and lots more.
Zee brings up the point that a lot of women use the rhetoric “girl’s girl” to weaponize other women who may not agree with them or hold the same morals as them. From her experience, the term has been used against her over a man, and if she doesn’t see certain situations the same as others. Why do women make up these terms and instead of using it to empower other women, they instead use it to gaslight them? Let’s discuss.
Jasmine shares some of her journey as a content creator, in addition to dating a fan, and contrary to popular belief, not using comedy to shoot her shot at men. While her content has gained a lot of traction on social media, Jas says she prefers to not date a man who is familiar with what she does or who she is online.
We also speak about if we are okay with our significant others being friends with someone they’d has sexual relations with in the past. While a lot of the women said it was a hard no for them, Zina actually saw nothing wrong with it. At the end of the day, if that person and your partner respects you and provides reassurance and security, is it really an issue? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
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This week we sit down with comedian, actress, and content creator Jasmine Ruiz to discuss all things from being a “girl’s girl” to whether or not they’d allow their significant others to be friends with someone they’ve been physical with in the past and lots more.

Zee brings up the point that a lot of women use the rhetoric “girl’s girl” to weaponize other women who may not agree with them or hold the same morals as them. From her experience, the term has been used against her over a man, and if she doesn’t see certain situations the same as others. Why do women make up these terms and instead of using it to empower other women, they instead use it to gaslight them? Let’s discuss.

Jasmine shares some of her journey as a content creator, in addition to dating a fan, and contrary to popular belief, not using comedy to shoot her shot at men. While her content has gained a lot of traction on social media, Jas says she prefers to not date a man who is familiar with what she does or who she is online.
We also speak about if we are okay with our significant others being friends with someone they’d has sexual relations with in the past. While a lot of the women said it was a hard no for them, Zina actually saw nothing wrong with it. At the end of the day, if that person and your partner respects you and provides reassurance and security, is it really an issue? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
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This week we’re getting spicy with Part 2 of our interview with masseuse and host of the Zen Den Pod, Desi. Desi gets candid with us about her experiences with threesomes, not just as a “unicorn” but also with her friends and significant other. Desi also talks about putting her friends onto men who she had slept with, who she knew would satisfy their needs. Ladies, can you see yourself passing an old bae onto your friends? 👀. Let us know in the comments below.
She also opens up about her experience as a dancer at Sin City, and how she got into stripping in the first place. Desi crowns herself as one of the best dancers in NYC and gives her reasons why she has self proclaimed this title.
Desi currently uses her love for dance and stretching to help other women discover their sensuality, not just for themselves, but also to instill confidence in them so they can feel sexy for their partners. She also provides healing massages and stretching services through her business Flow4Fluidity. Be sure to check her out and book a service with her!
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week we’re joined by masseuse and dancer Desmonique and a time was had!!! We kick off the episode with three ice breaker questions to get to know Desi a little better. We then give our thoughts on how cool we should be with our partner’s friends, and what’s appropriate. We also discuss if our friends should be cool with our partner and what boundaries should be in place.
Desi opens up about her past relationship with an older man whose ambition didn’t match hers and why the dynamic didn’t work. If your girlfriend or boyfriend’s dreams don’t align with yours, would you leave the relationship, or stick around? Also, is it deceiving if the person you’re dating doesn’t tell you their age in fear of losing you? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
How do you feel about dating an older man or woman and is there a cap as to how much older you’d date? Zee also shares her experience with being misled by an older man who lied about his age when they began dating. Have you ever lied about your age to get someone to date you? 👀
Stay tuned for part 2 with Desi which will be out next week where she shares some spicy secrets about threesomes, literally being dick yelp for her friends and much more.
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This week the trio reunites and kicks things off with a quick catch up before diving into the discussion of health professionals being urged to call vaginas “bonus holes” to avoid offending transgender patients. While we want everyone to have the freedom to be themselves, as women, we also would like that same freedom to be women to be returned to us.
We also discuss being placed on a pedestal in relationships and how this may negatively affect the relationship/connection. Have you or do you want to be placed on a pedestal when in a relationship? Let us know in the comments below.
To close out this episode, Honestly Tho reacts to the Montgomery brawl in Alabama, splitting the bill when out with a group of friends or friend friends, and lastly, advice for a woman who never gets approached when out with her girls.
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This week we sit down with tattoo artist and former Black Ink Crew personality Bux to discuss everything from how finding the right partner has changed his life, his journey with sickle cell anemia, his divorce, and so much more.
Bux opens up about finding the one and doing right by her with her in turn, doing right by him. He gets candid about how she’s supported him with his sickle cell anemia journey, tattooing, and much more. He also shares with us why his marriage failed and what it was like having to get divorced after 10 years.
We discuss if it’s possible for young men who are rich and famous to remain faithful, amidst all of the temptation and options that are thrown their way.
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This week we sit down with artist Moosie to discuss all things from growing in order to sustain healthy relationships versus healing. Moosie thinks the word “healing” is being thrown around frequently and doesn’t think many understand the misuse of the word. We unpack it is is to heal and what it is to simply grow.
We also discuss how society has plagued us to believe that we are unfulfilled without romantic relationships so instead, we entertain false companionship to avoid being “lonely”. Moosie shares some of his experiences with dating, the lifestyle of an artist and how relationships can either help him and his craft, or be a distraction.
We close out the episode with some current events in hip hop such as the sentencing of Tory Lanez, and urging blacks people to protect each other. We also discuss how Sukihana has handled the YK Osiris kiss situation and how she has given him grace despite everyone else’s anger towards the situation.
Moosie shares some of his favorite music he’s created thus far, the process of coming up with music video concepts, and his involvement as an artist. Be sure to follow him and tune into his music.
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This week we sit down with artist D Weathers to talk all things from boundaries versus control in a relationship, how to set those boundaries, the difference between male and female friendships, and so much more.
We dissect the Keke Palmer and Sarah Brady hot topics surrounding boundaries and insecure men. We also unpack how we can set boundaries within in a relationship so they are respected by our partners and also friends.
D Weathers opens up about a time where his friendships were on the brink of failure due to his lack of empathy, which was something he made the choice to change. Ladies and gents, what would be your reaction if your friends told you you lacked empathy?
We also discuss the ways in which women lie to each other and why it’s so easy for women not to hold each other accountable. Are men better at having the difficult conversations with each other and holding each other accountable? Let us know in the comments below.
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This week Zina sits down with Vee from Brooklyn and rapper Leeky Leeks to talk all things from motherhood to shooting their shot at men, and things that initially attracts them to a man.
We confess some of the hardships of motherhood, how easy most fathers have it in comparison to mothers, and how we cope with thee hardships. We also discuss some of the ways to “shoot your shot” at a man, which is something that most women aren’t use to doing. Ladies, do you express your interest in men whom you find attractive? And fellas, do you like when women shoot their shot at you? Let us know in the comments below.
We also discuss some of the things that initially attract us to men when in a public setting. Whether it be their personality, scent, style, what attracts you to a man and makes you want to get to know him? Let us know in the comments.
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This week the trio gets informative but spicy about sex toys and the danger they pose to women’s health, in addition to how consistent use of these may be preventing women from having an orgasm when being intimate with a partner. We also get candid about our own use of toys, masturbation, and self pleasing.

We then discuss our subconscious love story. Whether it be fairytale, or a little delusional lol, we get into what that used to look like for us and what it actually is, now that we’re grown. Do we still want that damsel in distress/save me love? Or a partner that is obsessed with us? Or do we want relationships that can be watered and built upon over time? What is your subconscious love story? Let us know in the comments below.

We close out the episode with Honestly Tho Reacts, where we react to social media content. In this week’s reactions, we discuss Coach Stormy’s botched butt shots and her having them removed. We also react to s post regarding sleeping with one person 36 times, and sleeping with 36 different people one time. Huh? Yes, that’s how we felt also.
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This week the trio get into the discussion of their friends over exposing themselves around others significant others,expectations of a friend who may have amassed a certain amount of a wealth or fame, and if we’d rather be workers or bosses and the qualities that one must have to excel at either. We also discuss our plans for this summer, if we’re gonna be outside or inside, and the new alleged phenomenon of instant dating. Have you ever been on an instant date? Let us know in the comments below.
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This week Zina sits down with her two male friends Darren and Yah Yah, to discuss all things from male vulnerability with each other to dating single mothers with badly behaved kids, and so much more.
The men talk about why it’s difficult to open up to each other about relationship hardships and the fear of judgement. They also open up about how important it is to have vulnerable conversations with each other and how it may be helpful at times.
We also discuss dating single mothers with children who are not well behaved. Would you date a person if their child was ill mannered and lacked discipline? Let us know in the comments. Also, is a misbehaved child a reflection of a bad parent? 👀
We close the episode with some comparisons between dating black women and women of other races. The men share their preferences and experiences.
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This week the trio reunites to talk all things from respecting their man’s beauty preferences even though it’s something you enjoy doing (ie: wearing makeup, wigs, etc) to a time we felt like we were getting in our own way whether it be our attitudes, way of thinking, or behaviors.
We open up about some of the times we’ve gotten in our own way by not being vulnerable, self sabotaging relationships, and lack of discipline. Symphony opens up about times of being unhappy and upset with things in her life which caused mental issues and at times made her feel like she did not want to be here anymore. Can y’all relate to this? Zee opens up about getting in her own way in relationships and remaining guarded while dating despite the other person’s vulnerability.
We close the episode with some girl chit chat on ten commandments young women should live by that we found on the Internet. We discuss if we agree or disagree with these commandments. Let us know y’all thoughts!
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This week the trio reunites to talk all things from emotional intelligence to conflict in relationships, privacy in relationships, and for some girl talk.
Are men more emotionally intelligent than women? We unpack this question while defining emotional intelligence, and giving logic to support why we think men are more emotionally intelligent than women although women are more nurturing.
We discuss how conflict in relationships can be an invitation for deeper intimacy however, there must be a solution to the conflict for this to work. We also discuss if we need privacy in relationships and if there should be a boundary with that.
During our chit chat we discuss if it’s okay to be out past a certain time while in a relationship and how that may or may not affect your relationship. After all, communication and trust are key. We also present a situation of being on vacation with your partner and then having to leave to handle business. Would you be upset or understanding? Let us know your thoughts on the comments.
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