In today’s whirlwind dating scene, where swipes and DMs dominate, many women find themselves skeptical of compliments, often perceiving them as calculated moves rather than genuine admiration. The overload of performative flattery on dating apps, coupled with past experiences of insincere charm, has left some women wary, questioning whether a kind word is a heartfelt sentiment or just another tactic in the game. Social media’s highlight reels and societal pressures amplify this distrust, making authentic connection feel like a rare gem buried in a sea of scripted lines. Yet, this guardedness isn’t universal—some women still crave sincere praise, but in a world where intentions are often unclear, a compliment can feel like a riddle wrapped in a risk.