In this candid conversation, we delve into the nuances of asexuality with Emilie Cabot, an asexual individual who shares her personal journey and experiences with discovering and understanding their sexuality. From navigating societal expectations to finding acceptance within herself, Emilie opens up about the challenges and triumphs of being asexual in a world where sexual norms often dominate the narrative. Sections: Discovering Asexuality: Emilie recounts their journey of self-discovery, from questioning traditional labels to finding resonance with asexuality. They reflect on pivotal moments, such as encountering AVEN (Asexual Visibility and Education Network) and realizing that their experiences didn't align with societal expectations of sexuality. Challenging Assumptions: The conversation explores misconceptions surrounding asexuality, including the difference between low libido, celibacy, and asexuality. Emilie shares personal anecdotes and discusses how societal pressure and cultural narratives can impact individuals' understanding of their own sexuality. Shifting Perspectives: Can sexuality, particularly asexuality, change over a lifetime? Emilie offers insights into the fluidity of sexuality and how deeper self-awareness can lead to a better understanding of one's identity. They emphasize the importance of ongoing dialogue and education to foster acceptance and inclusivity. Navigating Relationships: From dating to family planning, Emilie discusses the unique challenges faced by asexual individuals in romantic relationships. They share experiences of disclosing their asexuality on dating platforms and navigating conversations about intimacy and partnership. Embracing Diversity: The conversation concludes with a reflection on the importance of embracing diverse identities and experiences. Emilie highlights the value of open communication and mutual respect in fostering understanding and acceptance within relationships and communities. Guest Bio: Emilie E. Cabot is an anxious, introverted, asexual being crushed by capitalism who shares poetry and essays that illuminates asexual queerness, mental health struggles, and how systems and societal norms make living harder than it needs to be. Her book can be found on amazon: Processing Sh!t: A collection of writing by an anxious introverted neurodivergent asexual stuck in quarantine being crushed by capitalism trying to figure things out IG: @asexualintrovert