Before ghosting and dating apps, there were handwritten love letters, promenades, and chaperones lurking in the corner. In this episode, we take a look at how people used to fall in love, from Regency rules to Victorian love notes, and how we got from there to the world of swipes and unread DMs.

We’re talking fan flirting, postal crushes, romantic rituals, and why some old-fashioned traditions might just be worth bringing back. Plus, a real Victorian love letter read aloud, just in case you’re in need of a little swoon.

If you’ve ever wondered how dating got so complicated, or secretly wish someone would write you a letter instead of liking your Story, this one’s for you.