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Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions
Allishaz Distractions
35 episodes
1 week ago
Welcome to Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions, the podcast where we dive deep into the messiness, beauty, and complexities of relationships—from the excitement of new dating to the challenges of long-term commitments and marriage. I’m your host Allisha Minor-Gaines, and this is the place for real, raw, and often controversial conversations about love, connection, and everything in between. In this space, we’ll explore the ups and downs of relationships, the distractions that pull us away from each other, and how the tears—our “wine”—are often the product of those emotional twists and turns.
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Welcome to Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions, the podcast where we dive deep into the messiness, beauty, and complexities of relationships—from the excitement of new dating to the challenges of long-term commitments and marriage. I’m your host Allisha Minor-Gaines, and this is the place for real, raw, and often controversial conversations about love, connection, and everything in between. In this space, we’ll explore the ups and downs of relationships, the distractions that pull us away from each other, and how the tears—our “wine”—are often the product of those emotional twists and turns.
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Relationships
Society & Culture
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Episode 24: The Trust Myth: Can You Really Ever Fully Trust Again After Betrayal?
Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions
1 hour 20 minutes 55 seconds
4 months ago
Episode 24: The Trust Myth: Can You Really Ever Fully Trust Again After Betrayal?

You said you forgave them… but why does your chest still tighten every time their phone lights up?


In this raw and unfiltered episode of Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions, we’re diving headfirst into one of the most painful questions in any relationship:


“Can you ever really trust someone again after they cheat?”


Spoiler alert: The answer isn’t simple—and it sure as hell isn’t one-size-fits-all.


From the emotional aftershock of betrayal to the science of oxytocin, fromforgiveness myths to cultural silence, and from toxic positivity to realrebuilding rituals—we’re pouring truth into every glass. 🍷


Whether you’re newly dating, ten years deep in a marriage, or healing from someone who broke your trust and called it “love,” this episode offers clarity, compassion, and controversy.


We break down:

  • The lie behind "once a cheater, always a cheater"
  • Why forgiveness isn't permission
  • When to stay and when to save yourself first
  • Rebuilding trust through daily rituals, not empty apologies
  • How your identify, culture, and generational patterns shape how you heal


💔 Plus, real stories, poetic moments, research-backed advice, and a little shade—because sometimes healing hurts before it helps.

This isn’t just a podcast. It’s your emotional reset.


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  • Check out my poetry book ⁠⁠⁠"Distractions of the Heart" on Amazon.You can find my poetry book at Distractions-Heart-Allisha-Marie - on Amazon
Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions
Welcome to Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions, the podcast where we dive deep into the messiness, beauty, and complexities of relationships—from the excitement of new dating to the challenges of long-term commitments and marriage. I’m your host Allisha Minor-Gaines, and this is the place for real, raw, and often controversial conversations about love, connection, and everything in between. In this space, we’ll explore the ups and downs of relationships, the distractions that pull us away from each other, and how the tears—our “wine”—are often the product of those emotional twists and turns.