In this conversation, Anthony Hartcher and Mathew Blades explore the complexities of having hard conversations. They discuss the importance of understanding the anxiety that often accompanies these discussions, the role of honesty and vulnerability, and the significance of tone and word choice. Mathew shares personal stories and insights on how to navigate difficult conversations effectively, emphasising the need for preparation, setting boundaries, and the value of truth in relationships. The conversation highlights the potential for personal growth and breaking generational cycles through open communication. 

About Mathew Blades 
Mathew Blades is a seasoned speaker and advocate for meaningful communication, dedicated to helping individuals navigate the complexities of difficult conversations. With a rich background in radio and television spanning nearly three decades, Mathew has honed his skills in engaging audiences and fostering authentic dialogue. His personal journey has led him to become a transformational figure, focusing on breaking generational cycles and encouraging others to embrace their transitional character. 

Mathew believes that honest and open communication is essential for personal growth and stronger relationships. He empowers people to confront their fears surrounding difficult discussions, guiding them to understand the importance of uncovering the truth. Through his workshops and speaking engagements, Mathew shares practical strategies for approaching hard conversations with confidence and compassion, aiming to create a more connected and understanding world. 

Connect with Mathew Blades 

Website: matthewblades.com 

Podcast: Learn from People Who Lived It 

Instagram: @mathewbladesmedia 

Facebook: Mathew Blades 

LinkedIn: Mathew Blades 

Takeaways 

• Hard conversations are essential for personal growth. 

• Understanding the anxiety behind difficult discussions can ease the process. 

• Many people struggle with outdated operating systems from their past. 

• Honesty is crucial in navigating hard conversations. 

• The way we communicate can significantly impact the outcome of a conversation. 

• Setting the stage for meaningful discussions can lead to better outcomes. 

• Breaking generational cycles requires confronting difficult truths. 

• Establishing boundaries is key to managing difficult conversations. 

• The director's role in a conversation involves guiding the discussion. 

• It's important to accept that not every conversation will end positively. 

Share this episode with someone who might benefit from learning how to handle difficult conversations. Let's help each other grow and thrive! 

About me&my health up & Anthony Hartcher            
me&my health up seeks to enhance and enlighten the well-being of others. Host Anthony Hartcher is the CEO of me&my wellness which provides holistic health solutions using food as medicine, combined with a holistic, balanced, lifestyle approach. Anthony holds three bachelor's degrees in Complementary Medicine; Nutrition and Dietetic Medicine; and Chemical Engineering. 

Chapters 

00:00 Introduction and Context Setting 

05:09 Foundation: Three Truths About Hard Conversations 

11:25 Real-World Case Studies 

25:21 Practical Implementation Strategies  

38:47 Closing Principles and Takeaways