When my wife told me she was done because of how toxic and disconnected our marriage had become, I was devastated.... But, even if it had not worked, I'm so glad that I didn't quit or give up - that I chose to FIGHT for my marriage instead. Because we have so much fun together, there's so much joy and connection in my home now, and the truth is - if I didn't learn these lessons with her, then any other relationship would have only ended the exact same way... The problem is rarely your partner. It's usually a lack of skills and understanding of how to build, maintain, and sustain a happy, healthy relationship...