Warwick is a Cinematographer who has filmed, amongst other things, many of Missy Higgins film clips. His erratic and demanding work life has made it hard for him to see his boys as much as he wanted to while they were growing up. We discuss how he managed to have a successful relationship with them.   Topics: Grown up kids. Working in the film industry makes family life almost impossible. Guilt- Missing so much of early life with the kids because of work. There is no such thing as no on a film set. Anecdotes from the set. Making Missy Higgins film clips for "Everyone's waiting" and "Unashamed Desire". Quality time. Teenage disinterest.  It's all over before you know it. Are boys and girls different- apart from the obvious? When the kids team up against you. Kids are resilient when they know they are loved. Not the person you were when you had kids: changing ethics. Relationships based on shared values. People don't change unless the pain is bad enough. Climate change and cognitive dissonance.  How do you talk to kids about climate change? Fixing the world- there, done!