In the second episode of Hand Baggage Only, psychologist and cognitive hypnotherapist, Suzette Shahmoon, talks to Oliver Baum, a Psycho-Spiritual Therapist and Systemic Facilitator.   They discussed the complicated situation of what happens to our friendships when we suddenly find ourselves single again. What if your partner was the one in control of the social diary? Is it inevitable that friends will opt to take sides? And what happens when they don’t.  And how do we deal with the realisation that people now regard us differently, perhaps we’re a threat, or we’re no longer associated with that friendship group.