What do you do when someone in your church doesn’t share your convictions? Not about Jesus. Not about salvation. But about how a Christian should dress. What worship should sound like. How to parent. How to engage with culture. What do you do when someone’s walk with Jesus doesn’t look like yours? Most of us make snap judgments. We size people up. One conversation about money, parenting, schooling… and we quietly file them into categories. Faithful. Immature. Legalistic. Worldly. Safe. Problematic. But what if those categories don’t belong to us? What if the real issue isn’t them at all… but our pride? How we tend to rank or put our priorities & desires over people? Is your obsession w/being right about 2ndary opinions louder than your gratitude for the redeemed, you and others Have we made our favorite traditions an arbitrary proof or marker for spiritual growth? Ch14 confronts all of that. This might be one of the most needed lessons for the modern American Evangelical church. Because the moment grace is no longer the center of our community, something else will be. And whatever takes its place will divide us. Church was never meant to be a fight club, but sometimes we turn it into one.