Do you feel more intimate with your spouse after a conflict? If you are doing it right, you SHOULD! I'm chatting with Nicole Lee, license marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, and certified sex therapy-informed professional today about Conflict Intimacy! But really, y'all know how we roll here. There was a lot of fun, and a lot of ADHD!
You can find Nicole here:
Heart & Honey Counseling Facebook
Her Journal:
1+1=3, You, Me, & Our Relationship
She is licensed in PA, so if you need someone to teach you to conflict well, and you are in PA, hit her up!
In the chat, she mentions the work of the Gottmans. If you haven't read The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work, I highly recommend it!
I want to add my own note here. In Evangelical circles conflict is sometimes extra spicy because of theological issues. If you think one of you needs to have the final vote in conflicts and disagreements, and that is causing stress in the marriage, I encourage you to check out the new book, The Marriage You Want, as it addresses those issues!
And don't forget my 31 Days of Intimacy!
To support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love!