#16 This week's guest, Julie Smith, shares her profound journey from a strict conservative Christian upbringing to becoming a doula and prenatal educator. She discusses her experiences with adoption, trauma, substance abuse, teaching, as well as her journey towards recovery and self-discovery. Julie emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for open communication, and reflects on her experiences as a teacher and mother. The conversation touches on themes of identity, shame, and the complexities of intimacy and sexual health within the context of her upbringing.
Julie explores the complexities of intimacy, parenting, and personal growth through the lens of motherhood, disability, and trauma recovery. Sharing her journey from unexpected pregnancy to raising a child with health challenges, we delve into the role of doulas in childbirth, the sacredness of the birthing experience, and the impact of aging on identity. Julie reflects on the lessons learned from her children and the transformative power of overcoming adversity, navigating life's challenges, the importance of living in the present, and embracing emotions during difficult times.
We also reflect on the evolution of marriage, the significance of self-discovery, and the need for supportive communities, especially among women. Julie emphasizes the importance of doing inner child work, creating safe spaces for dialogue, and the beauty of chosen family connections. As she embraces her 50s, she expresses excitement for new beginnings and the importance of supporting one another in motherhood and personal growth.
This episode is for women everywhere, I am so inspired by this episode and hope you are too :)
Chapters
(08:30) Introduction to Julie & Growing Up
(19:20) Teenage Struggle to Substance Abuse
(33:25) Navigating Virginity, Intimacy, & Pregnancy!
(42:30) Positive Lessons & Gifts of Julie's Family
(53:10) The Role of a Doula and Advocacy in Childbirth
(101:42) Near Death Brain Injury - Snowboarding in BC
(1:15:00) Rapid Fire Round Up Questions :)
(1:26:39) Exploring Her Biological Lineage
(1:32:33) Wrap Up & What's Next For Julie
Links:
Julie's Instagram: @juliekennedysmith
Julie's Link Page: Julie Doula & Birth
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