Are you tired of falling for people who can’t (or won’t) show up for you? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive deep into why so many LGBTQ+ rainbows find themselves chasing emotionally unavailable partners, and what it really means for your self-worth and future happiness.
✨ Here’s what you’ll get in this episode:
Ready to stop settling for less and start attracting the love you deserve?
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In this solo episode of Ghosted, Gagged and Gay, host Lonay—relationship coach and Rapid Transformational Therapy® practitioner—dives deep into the world of heavy emotions within the LGBTQ+ community.
Why do so many queer people struggle to express or process big feelings like love, sadness, or anger? How does growing up suppressing our true selves impact our ability to connect deeply in relationships?
Drawing from personal experience and client stories, Lonay unpacks the unique emotional challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, especially when it comes to intimacy and vulnerability.
From the struggle to accept affection to the difficulty of supporting loved ones through sadness, this episode explores why so many of us feel overwhelmed by our own emotions—and what we can do to heal.
You’ll learn:
Whether you’re navigating heartbreak, seeking more meaningful connections, or simply want to understand yourself better, this episode offers compassionate, actionable guidance designed for the LGBTQ+ experience.
Ready to transform your relationship with emotions and love?
Book a free call with Lonay or share your story to be featured on the show. Links in the link tree: https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney
What happens after coming out — when the journey is no longer about labels, but about living as your fullest, truest self?
In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay!, I sit down with Josh O’Neill — Executive Director, entrepreneur, and creative spirit — to explore his transformation “from farm to fabulous.”
Josh shares candidly about his path through loss, love, heartbreak, and healing, and how creativity and performance became vehicles for embracing authenticity. From the shadows into the spotlight, Josh’s story is a reminder that queer love and self-acceptance are not destinations, but journeys of courage and becoming.
📍Guest Links
👉 Follow Josh on Instagram: @josh_onz
🌐 Website: https://www.thelitterclub.org/
🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/josheeonz/
📍Connect with Me
https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney
What does it mean to grow older as a gay man — especially when illness and care needs enter the picture?
In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay!, I talk with Daphne Wright — nurse, writer, and hopeful traveler — about her new novel that was born during the long days of the pandemic.
We explore the story of Brice, an older gay man navigating life after losing his husband, facing an ALS diagnosis, and wondering if he’ll have to “go back into the closet” just to receive care. While the subject sounds heavy, Daphne weaves in warmth and humor, painting a story of resilience, humanity, and queer experience that refuses to be a total downer.
📍Guest Links
👉 Follow Daphne on Instagram: @daphnelwright
🌐 Read "On Love and Death and Belonging": https://daphneleoniewright.com/
📍Connect with Me
How do our desires, fantasies, and kinks fit into living authentically?
In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay!, Lonay Halloum sits down with Dr. Steven Davidson, clinical sexologist, author of Sexual Integrity: Finding the Courage to be Yourself, and host of The Sexual Integrity Coach on YouTube. With over 30 years of experience, Dr. Davidson has guided individuals, couples, and even throuples toward deeper intimacy and more fulfilling sexual relationships.
Together, we explore what sexual integrity really means, how to integrate your erotic identity into your relationships, and why embracing your kinks and desires is essential to building honesty, courage, and freedom in queer love.
📍Guest Links
👉 Follow Dr. Steven on Instagram: @sexualintegritycoach
🌐 Website: https://sexualintegritycoach.com/
📹 Youtube: @sexualintegritycoach
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In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay, we dive into bold reinvention, identity shifts, and building a life aligned with your truth.
My guest, Kate Capelli, is a Business Growth Coach for coaches, a marketing nerd, and a self-described adventure junkie. From patrolling the streets as a police officer to founding one of the UK’s largest women’s adventure companies, Kate’s life is a masterclass in choosing courage over comfort.
We explore:
The defining turning points that shaped her understanding of love, identity, and purpose
What living out of a van in the Rockies taught her about intuition and trust
Why community — especially queer community — is the backbone of her business and healing
How her latest venture, Impact Coach Collective, is helping purpose-driven coaches grow with integrity
Whether you're navigating a new chapter in life or just need a dose of empowerment, this conversation is packed with grounded wisdom, laughs, and realness.
🎧 Tune in now — and remember, falling in love might just be the wildest adventure of all.
📍Guest Links
👉 Follow Kate on Instagram: @katecapellicoach
🌐 Website: https://linktr.ee/Whyfounders
Other social media handles:
https://www.youtube.com/@KateCapelliCoach
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kate-capelli/
https://www.tiktok.com/@katecapellimentor
📍Connect with Me
Have you ever felt stuck — like you’re going through the motions of life, checking every box, looking “successful” on the outside… but on the inside, something feels numb or off?
Today’s guest, Yannick Picard, is a queer life coach who specializes in helping people move from functional freeze to full aliveness. In this powerful episode, we explore how high-functioning individuals — especially within the LGBTQ+ community — can be emotionally frozen without even realizing it.
🧊 What is Functional Freeze?
It’s a trauma response where your nervous system gets stuck in survival mode — not quite fight or flight, but not truly at rest either. You’re doing all the things... but disconnected from joy, purpose, and authenticity.
⚠️ Common symptoms of functional freeze include:
Feeling emotionally numb or disconnected
Going through the motions but feeling unfulfilled
Struggling to make decisions or take aligned action
Overthinking or perfectionism as a coping mechanism
Smiling on the outside while suppressing internal overwhelm
Feeling stuck despite external “success”
Difficulty resting or accessing play, creativity, or desire
💬 In this conversation, Yannick shares:
His personal journey from self-sabotage to self-mastery
The subtle ways functional freeze shows up in queer lives
Why high-achievers often miss the signs
What heartbreak taught him about emotional thawing
Small, powerful steps to reconnect with your true self
If you’ve ever felt like life is happening, but not really being lived — this episode is your wake-up call (and warm invitation) to reconnect, reclaim, and rise.
📍Guest Links
👉 Follow Yannick on Instagram: @thenakedcoach
🌐 Website: https://thenaked.coach/
➕ Add Yannick on LinkedIn: Click here
📍Connect with Me
🌈 Website & Free Call: www.rainbowjourney.co
🎧 Follow me on Instagram: @radiantheartsjourney
🎤 Be my next guest: click here
📹 Watch the video podcast on Youtube: @radiantheartsjourney
Welcome to Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the show where queer love, identity, and self-acceptance take center stage.
Today’s guest is someone whose story is a powerful reminder that choosing authenticity is one of the bravest things we can do.
Katia Padilha, born and raised in Brazil, spent 10 years in service through a Christian NGO — devoted to community, yet deeply disconnected from her own truth. Conditioned to believe that being herself meant losing everything, she spent years hiding behind faith… until a shift at 30 changed everything.
Now living in the UK, engaged, and working as a Business Operations Manager, Katia shares her raw, tender story of coming out, redefining spirituality, and learning to love herself — even when religion didn’t.
We talk about:
🙏 The emotional toll of growing up with a “conditional God”
💔 Losing community after coming out — and finding peace anyway
🌈 What it really means to choose yourself, even when it costs you everything
💬 How she found love — after learning to love herself
This episode is a heart-opening invitation to anyone navigating the space between identity, faith, and self-worth.
📍Guest Links
👉 Follow Katia on Instagram: @kat_the_expat
📍Connect with Me
🌈 Website & Free Call: www.rainbowjourney.co
🎧 Follow me on Instagram: @radiantheartsjourney
🎤 Be my next guest: click here
📹 Watch the video podcast on Youtube: @radiantheartsjourney
Welcome back to Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the podcast where we celebrate the beautiful chaos of queer love, identity, and healing.
In this episode, I’m joined by the brilliant Wes Ferguson — a queer actor, writer, director, and creator of the viral LGBTQ+ horror series Ghosted, blending satire, seduction, and scares into unforgettable storytelling. You may also know Wes from his starring role in The Holly King and as the co-host of the long-running pop culture podcast Richy and Wes.
We talk about:
✨ What makes queer love stories truly unforgettable
👻 How heartbreak, rejection, and fear show up in horror and in real life
💔 The lessons Wes would share with his younger queer self
🎭 How storytelling has helped him reclaim identity, desire, and healing
Whether you’ve been ghosted, gagged, or are just here for the gay — this episode will leave you laughing, reflecting, and feeling seen.
📍Guest Links
👉 Follow Wes and watch his series Ghosted on Instagram: @thewestopher
📍Connect with Me
🌈 Website & Free Call: www.rainbowjourney.co
🎧 Follow me on Instagram: @radiantheartsjourney
🎤 Be my next guest here
📹 Watch the video podcast on Youtube: @radiantheartsjourney
Welcome to the very first episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the podcast where we dive into the magic, mess, and meaning of queer love.
In this powerful kickoff, I’m joined by the incredible Skylar McManus — author of the LGBTQ+ graphic novel Essence, co-host of the neurodivergent podcast Mentally Tabbed Out, and a real-life agile coach helping teams (and maybe hearts) thrive.
We dive into:
🌈 What it means to unlearn the myth that queer or neurodivergent people are “too much” to love
📚 How Skylar’s graphic novel reflects his own identity, journey, and inner superheroes
🧠 The surprising ways neurodivergence shows up in how we love and communicate
💬 What 18 years of queer love — that began with a blown-off blind date — taught him about real connection
✨ Why creativity, structure, and softness can all coexist in lasting love
This episode is equal parts heartwarming and healing — a must-listen for anyone who’s ever felt too complicated to be fully loved. Spoiler: you're not.
📍Guest Links
👉 Follow Skylar on Instagram: @sedarel1
🦸♂️ Read Essence here
🎙 Listen to Mentally Tabbed Out here
📍Connect with Me
🌈 Website & Free Call: www.rainbowjourney.co
🎧 Follow me on Instagram: @radiantheartsjourney
🎤 Be my next guest here
📹 Watch the video podcast on Youtube: @radiantheartsjourney
✨ Welcome to Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the podcast where we unpack the messy, magical, and often maddening world of queer love.
I’m your host, Lonay — queer relationship coach and Rapid Transformational Therapy® practitioner — and I created this space to explore the real stories, patterns, and subconscious blocks shaping our love lives.
In this trailer, you’ll get a taste of what to expect: raw conversations, deep healing insights, and unapologetic queer joy. Whether you’ve been ghosted, gagged, or are simply trying to figure love out — you're not alone, and you’re in the right place.
🎙️ Hit play, subscribe, and join the journey toward deeper connection, self-worth, and radiant relationships.
Would you like to share your story?
Book a call with me: https://rainbowjourney.co/ghosted-gagged-gay556732