Are you ever proud of yourself when think back on a time when you have acted like an asshole at work, or in your personal life, with your family or a friend, or in your community?  No, right?  If you are a good person, which is what you certainly are if you feel drawn to this podcast, the book, and continue to listen to me, that answer is always no.  In this episode we are going to dig into what is unfortunately a very common problem, toxic online behavior by some men directed toward women on dating websites and in dating apps.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Monogamy.  Or not?  Is monogamy the way to go, your goal, or not?   Is it ok to cheat, or is it not?  We get into this thorny and complicated question in this week’s episode.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

How do you ask for sex?  Whether you are just dating someone, or its a lady friend that you are interested in, or you are in a relationship but not getting enough sex, how do you ask for it?  How do gentlemen bring the subject of sex up in a nice way, one that isn’t rude, a turn off,  or a way that makes you look bad. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

From men jumping at the first pretty face to dealing with women who want to be in your wife's or girlfriend's place in your life, we have you covered in this week's episode about dealing with various common Traps and Pitfalls of dating success. If you are continuously improving yourself like we call for and describe in the book, if you are always improving as a man every day, win after win, small step after small step, one goal achieved after another, then a lot of positive things start happening more often and on a more consistent basis for you.  You have better relationships at work, in business, in your personal life, and of course, with women. Interviews start going our way.  Job promotions start happening more often.  You are closing more sales.  You're getting more customers and clients.  There is prosperity and success all around!That’s all great, right?  Buying the book and listening to all of these podcasts is paying off!  But there are some potential traps I need to tell you about.  Ones that I need to warn you about as you head down that path.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Let your confidence soar whether you are naked or clothed! In this episode we talk about men’s grooming secrets. Some things may be obvious and second nature to you, and some may be quite unfamiliar. But all of them will help you walk around with the right amount of confidence as you are out there meeting ladies, and otherwise going about your daily life. We’ll go over everything as per usual, to be as thorough as possible. If you think you are too fat, too short, too bald, too whatever, we are going to talk about how to think about all of that as well.This is another installment in our self-improvement series where we highlight different ways to improve yourself, to be the best person you can be, and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. As you continue to improve every day, bit-by-bit and step-by-step, you will see that will draw people to you as your confidence increases and you project that great positive energy.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/    

In this episode we talk about the pool of available relationship candidates through a lens or perspective called "10-80-10" that I am borrowing from an entirely unrelated discipline - police work and law enforcement. That comparison might sounds nuts, but hear me out. I think looking at the dating and relationship problem domain through different lenses can be helpful and informative. It can help you make any needed adjustments to your attitude and approach to meeting someone special. And it can help you think about what you have observed in your own experience with dating, and what is available out there. This is another installment in our self-improvement series where we highlight different ways to improve yourself, to be the best person you can be, and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. As you continue to improve every day, bit-by-bit and step-by-step, you will see that will draw people to you as your confidence increases and you project that great positive energy.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Is your lady in need a bit of feedback in some sensitive areas, but it is just too awkward of a topic to bring up? Your hero has you covered.   This is another episode in our self-improvement series that we have in support of this channel and podcast. Personal excellence is vital to our whole approach to being the best man that you can be. This is something you work on every day. You keep improving yourself as part of your efforts to be the best possible asset for those you care about. As you improve every day, your confidence will increase. As your confidence increases, others will see that improvement in you and be drawn to you, including ladies.In this episode, I want to specifically drill into another difficult problem many guys have - and that is handling various common problems that come up in relationships, especially ones that are difficult or awkward to discuss. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Struggling to stay informed because of disinformation, clickbait, fake news and liars? Your hero hears you. I've got you covered in this week's video and podcast.   This is the first in a self-improvement series that we will do as part of this podcast (and Youtube channel). Excellence, in every sense of the term, is part of the foundation of our whole approach to being the best man that you can be, in order to be - among many other things - as attractive and appealing to women as possible. You work on your personal excellence every day, and one of the several outcomes that flow from that is increased confidence, that increased confidence is something you automatically project in how you walk, how you talk, how you conduct yourself — your “swagger”. You’ll see that will draw people to you as you keep improving day by day, and year by year. They’ll feel your ever-increasing positive energy, they’ll feel drawn in, and want to be a part of your world.   In this episode, we drill into a rather difficult problem - effective ways people can stay informed as a citizen. Being informed and smart is cool and part of your continuous improvement and drive toward excellence.   BACKGROUND: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.   Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Are you trapped in the "friend zone" and looking for options? In this episode we take a look at the whole friend zone concept using the framework and perspectives of the Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting book.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/).   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides 

Wasting people’s time.  We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time.  You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets.   You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you.  In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time.    Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

The Hero Instinct.  What is it?  Where did the idea come from?  And it is something useful for you?Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

Integrity.  We all have an intuitive sense of what the word integrity means, but we might not agree on precisely what it is.  I think it will be illuminating to do so, so today we will dig into the topic of integrity.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

Friendship 101.  Are you a good friend?  Are you good friend material?  Do you have the number of friends you want, or no friends at all, or too many friends   If you want to be a better friend, then this is the episode for you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

Today I want to talk about knowing where to look.  Knowing where to look.  And I don’t mean physically where do you find women in general, that’s mostly everywhere in the planet.  I mean where do you look at a person to see the real them.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

Working the system. One of the lessons I have thoroughly learned in life is about the benefits of what I call "working the system".  The world is a tough, competitive place, and you need to give yourself as much advantage and leverage as you can sometimes.  We’ll take a look at what I mean by working the system in this week’s episode.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirtingYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

No one has a monopoly on good ideas.  Oftentimes you can find better ways of doing things or solving problems by being more exposed to others, other countries, other regions, maybe other places in your own country or region, other ways of thinking.  Why not let the best ideas bubble up to the top to benefit yourself, your community, or your country.  This week, we will explore this idea from a personal level.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirtingYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

Youth is wasted on the young.  You may have heard that expression.  If you are a young person, you might think that is what old people say.  If you are an old person, maybe you say that with a sense of regret - thinking of missed opportunities or mistakes from your past.  Today, I want to talk about this concept, and if there is any knowledge that needs to be transferred to the young folks among us, let’s talk about that.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirtingYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

You may have heard the expression “An idle mind is the Devil’s workshop”.  Okay if an idle mind is the Devil’s workshop, what exactly are you supposed to occupy your mind with?  Busywork?  What are we supposed to fill our heads with?  Is the answer the same for everybody, or does it depend?  That is the subject of today’s podcast.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

100 more.  If you have listened to the podcast for a while, I understand that I might have come off as rather dismissive or uncaring about people who aren’t at what I call  Level 3: meaning family wife, partner, children, and your closest friends.  But that isn’t the case.  Today I want to share how I think about my relationships with people who are not all that close to me: neighbors, my community, and the public at large.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

After watching The Tinder Swindler documentary on Netflix and seeing how the ladies victimized got called gold diggers by some when their story broke, I got thinking about real gold diggers and how you  - yes you - might have to deal with such a situation in your own life.  If you haven’t seen that documentary, you can Google “Tinder Swindler” and read the articles that pop up to get the gist of what happened.  Why do I say gold digging might be something you have to deal with in your own life?  Once people will see how well you're doing, you might have ladies interested in you just for the money, and for the security and lifestyle that you offer.  Today I want to talk about how to manage, or better yet, avoid, such situations.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB