Send us a text Sunshine, great food, and a cheeky Grinder tone over a loudspeaker set the stage for a bigger conversation: what actually happens to shame when the body is treated as ordinary rather than scandalous? We open with our romp through the Good Food & Wine Show—standout Greek bites, a crush-worthy stop at SOHI Distillery, and the kind of easy banter that only happens when friends gather. A surprise cruise win at Panthers and plans for Newcastle Pride give us momentum, but the hea...

Send us a text We set out to compare gay and straight sex and ended up building a practical, funny field guide to first times, technique, consent, and why culture matters more than labels. Miami returns with big laughs, useful tips, and unfiltered stories that make the awkward feel normal and the normal feel exciting. • guest Miami returns, relaxed and ready to share • first times unpacked, pain vs pleasure, pressure vs pacing • toy hygiene, consent mid‑scene, why clean matters • rimming, do...

Send us a text What happens when two gay men venture into a BDSM femdom night at their regular sauna? More education and eye-opening experiences than they bargained for! When our friends Bonnie and Clyde expressed curiosity about checking out a sex-on-premises venue, we decided to conduct a reconnaissance mission to Sydney's Arrows. But instead of our usual Sunday men-only visit, we opted for their Saturday night BDSM event – and walked into a world completely different from what we're accus...

Send us a text What price would you put on your sexuality? In this candid episode, Dave and Matt peel back the curtain on the fascinating world of "gay-for-pay" pornography while sharing their recent adventures as fully grown homos navigating Sydney's gay scene. The journey begins with updates on Dave's ongoing home renovations before diving into a Father's Day outing that unexpectedly led to church—their code word for the sauna—where cruising codes and memorable encounters await detailed de...

Send us a text What really happens when the camera starts clicking at an underwear photoshoot? Our special European guests pull back the curtain on a world most people never see. Sultan, a part-time model and trained illustrator, shares how he's merged his artistic talents with modelling, even designing his own underwear prints featuring playful beach themes. Anders reveals the nuances of mature artistic nude modelling and how lighting transforms the male form. Meanwhile, Dave offers the pho...

Send us a text The sporting world just got a glittery glow-up thanks to Mitch Brown, former West Coast Eagle and Essendon bomber, who recently made history as the first openly bisexual male player in AFL's 129-year existence. That's right – after more than a century of sweaty men chasing balls around ovals, someone has finally acknowledged they might like both kinds of sausage rolls! Brown's announcement at age 31, post-career, speaks volumes about the challenges LGBTQ+ individuals still fac...

Send us a text What happens when sexual identity doesn't fit neatly into society's boxes? In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we're joined by Don (name changed for anonymity), a married man who enjoys sexual encounters with men without identifying as gay or bisexual. Don's journey begins with a candid admission about childhood trauma that became a "triggering point" for his sexual exploration. Rather than allowing this experience to define him negatively, he's reclaimed his sexuality on hi...

Send us a text When we stumbled across a documentary called "101 Rent Boys" from 2000, we couldn't look away. The raw, often heartbreaking stories of male sex workers in Los Angeles captivated us and sparked a deeper conversation about how male prostitution has evolved over the decades. These men's journeys into sex work frequently began with trauma – being kicked out of home, experiencing abuse, or falling into drug use. Yet surprisingly, some chose the profession purely for economic reason...

Send us a text Sex, stereotypes, and shared frustrations take center stage as Matt and Dave welcome their very first podcast guest – their straight female friend Miami – for an unfiltered conversation that bridges the gay-straight divide. The chemistry between these long-time friends creates an atmosphere where no topic is off-limits. Miami immediately challenges the hosts about why she wasn't originally asked to co-host despite suggesting it for years, setting the tone for a brutally honest...

Send us a text Stepping into the brave new world of artificial intelligence, Matt and Dave explore the remarkable capabilities and concerning pitfalls of this rapidly evolving technology that's quietly reshaping our everyday lives. From enhancing resumes to generating entire songs, we share our personal adventures with AI tools like ChatGPT and Sonu. The results have been nothing short of mind-blowing – what once took hours now takes seconds, and creative possibilities seem endless. We're ev...

Send us a text We explore the fascinating concept of reincarnation and past lives using ChatGPT to uncover our soul timelines spanning thousands of years and multiple incarnations. • Dave discovers he has lived approximately 120-140 past lives over 150,000 Earth years • Matt learns he has had 12-20 past incarnations and this might be his final earthly journey • Both hosts find connections to ancient Egypt, Florence during the Renaissance, and 1920s New York • ChatGPT reveals they were "twin ...

Send us a text What drives someone to become a serial killer? Is it nature, nurture, or something more sinister lurking beneath the surface? Through a blend of psychology, true crime analysis, and thoughtful reflection, we explore the minds of history's most notorious murderers—with a specific focus on killers from the LGBTQ+ community. From Jeffrey Dahmer's disturbing crimes to the recent case of Erin Patterson (Australia's "mushroom killer"), we examine what makes these seemingly ordinary ...

Send us a text Remember the days of perms, mullets, and portable TVs the size of two iPhones? Dave and Matt take you on a nostalgic journey through five generations, exploring how each has shaped our world and influenced the next. Starting with the Silent Generation who survived the Great Depression and World War II, we trace society's evolution through the activist Baby Boomers who fought for civil rights and LGBTQ+ acceptance, to our own Gen X experiences (which Dave confidently declares "...

Send us a text What's the real cost of looking good? Dave and Matt rip the price tag off beauty treatments in this candid, eye-opening episode that explores what we're willing to spend to feel confident in our own skin. From Botox adventures to gastric sleeve surgery, the guys share surprisingly personal stories about their own cosmetic journeys. Dave reveals his first-time Botox experience, while Matt opens up about losing over 40kg through weight loss surgery and the unexpected psychologic...

Send us a text What masks do you wear without even realising it? This episode takes inspiration from Rob Goddard's book "Behind the Smile" as we explore the facades we've created throughout our lives to navigate the world as gay men. Dave opens up about his "mask of control" – a safety mechanism developed from growing up in rough neighborhoods that now manifests as a need to maintain control in various situations. This protective strategy serves him well but becomes problematic when circumst...

Send us a text Ever had a week so jam-packed with adventures that you barely have time to process one experience before diving into the next? That's exactly what happened to us over the past fortnight, and we're spilling all the tea! We kicked things off at our friend's 50th birthday bash where we couldn't help but notice a particularly handsome 6'4" basketball player who had everyone's attention. Between devouring the most incredible Persian feta dip (courtesy of Aldi!) and blue cheese that...

Send us a text Words have power. When a homophobe at our local club referred to us as "the fucking poofters," it sparked a deep dive into the language of homosexuality – past, present, and evolving. What terms were once slurs but have been reclaimed? What words should never be uttered? And how does context change everything? We journey through fascinating gay terminology from across the decades, uncovering forgotten gems like "Doric Love" (1920s term for gay relationships) and "fag stag" (th...

Send us a text Wellness journeys take unexpected turns as Matt dives headfirst into his first-ever yoga experience at the Australian Yoga and Wellness Festival. What begins as friendly support for his friend Miami transforms into a profound personal awakening during a Sacred Breath healing session that reconnects Matt with long-forgotten childhood memories. Through tears and physical sensations, he discovers parts of himself he never knew were missing, raising questions about healing, trauma,...

Send us a text Ever wondered what foods might naturally boost your libido? Or why your pee smells strange after eating asparagus? Dave and Matt tackle these burning questions and more in this laugh-out-loud episode packed with bizarre food facts and their usual brand of unfiltered gay commentary. The episode kicks off with the boys recounting their Anzac Day adventures at Panthers club in Western Sydney, where solemn remembrance meets spirited celebration. Between the two-up gambling and pay...

Send us a text Dave and Matt take you through the transformative journey of coming out in this deeply personal episode that balances heartfelt vulnerability with practical insights. Dave reveals his experience of coming out at 42 after a military career, marriage, and fatherhood. "Every day since that point onwards I've been the true, authentic me," he shares, detailing how family reactions surprised him in the best possible ways. Meanwhile, Matt discusses coming out in his early twent...