In this episode, Tanya explores the metaphor of gardener versus mechanic parenting, emphasising the importance of creating a supportive environment for children experiencing burnout.
She discusses the pressures parents face in a behaviourist society that prioritises compliance over connection, and how this can lead to harmful parenting practices.
Tanya advocates for a gardener approach, focusing on nurturing and understanding children's needs rather than trying to 'fix' them.
The conversation highlights the significance of trust, safety, and compassion in the healing process for children.
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Chapters
00:00 Gardener vs. Mechanic Parenting
07:10 Understanding Burnout in Children
13:30 The Pressure of Compliance
20:25 Creating a Safe Environment for Healing