Episode 427 of Friends Talking Nerdy takes listeners into the world of love, relationships, and all the beautiful chaos that comes with polyamory. Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive into stories pulled from the Polyamory Relationship Advice subreddit, bringing their own lived experiences to the table with warmth, humor, and honesty.

The episode kicks off with the duo acknowledging just how tricky navigating multiple relationships can be—not because polyamory itself is inherently complicated, but because humans are. Emotions, expectations, communication styles… it’s all a tangle, and Reddit provides a perfect cross-section of the challenges people face when trying to make non-monogamous love work.

As they read through posts from people struggling with jealousy, time management, mismatched expectations, or even just figuring out how to come out as poly to friends and family, Aubrey and Tim approach each story with empathy and grounded advice. They don’t claim to be experts or therapists, but they speak candidly about what’s worked in their own lives—whether it’s hard-learned lessons about setting boundaries, the importance of radical honesty, or how to avoid slipping into toxic dynamics disguised as “freedom.”

The conversation moves easily between serious and lighthearted. Aubrey offers thoughtful breakdowns of emotional nuance, while Tim injects humor and grounded practicality to keep things from getting too heavy. Together, they model what supportive poly communication can look like: acknowledging fears without shame, validating desires without judgment, and reminding listeners that it’s okay to stumble along the way.

The episode feels like a mix of a late-night heart-to-heart with friends and a pragmatic guidebook for anyone curious about—or already living—polyamory. By the end, it’s clear that Aubrey and Tim’s goal isn’t to hand down “one true way” of doing relationships, but to remind listeners that love is expansive, flexible, and deeply personal.

Episode 427 is a blend of education, storytelling, and vulnerability that gives polyamorous folks and allies alike a lot to chew on, and it adds another thoughtful entry to the Friends Talking Nerdy library of conversations that don’t shy away from the messy, human stuff.

As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.

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