Are you feeling lonely or struggling to make friends? You're not alone. In 'Friendless,' host James Avramenko explores the ups and downs of friendship, the challenges of making new connections, and the impact of social isolation on our mental health. Each episode, James talks to people from all walks of life who have experienced friendship struggles and share their stories of triumph and perseverance. From overcoming shyness to navigating social anxiety, 'Friendless' offers practical tips and empathetic advice to help you build meaningful connections and find your community. Join James as he explores the complex world of human connection and the power of friendship.
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Are you feeling lonely or struggling to make friends? You're not alone. In 'Friendless,' host James Avramenko explores the ups and downs of friendship, the challenges of making new connections, and the impact of social isolation on our mental health. Each episode, James talks to people from all walks of life who have experienced friendship struggles and share their stories of triumph and perseverance. From overcoming shyness to navigating social anxiety, 'Friendless' offers practical tips and empathetic advice to help you build meaningful connections and find your community. Join James as he explores the complex world of human connection and the power of friendship.
The Hidden Benefits of Bullying (with special guest Magda Baker)
Friendless
1 hour 24 minutes
5 months ago
The Hidden Benefits of Bullying (with special guest Magda Baker)
This week on a very special episode of "Friendless," host James Avramenko welcomes the inimitable Magda Baker—singer, songwriter, producer, actor, and co-founder of the queer arts magazine Beautiful Trash for Beautiful People—for a candid, funny, and wide-ranging conversation about art, friendship, community, and navigating modern life.
Together, James and Magda dive into the tangled relationship many of us have with social media, technology, and addiction, exploring strategies for digital detox, reclaiming personal time, and the joys of (temporarily) switching to a flip phone. Magda shares his journey as a queer artist, from formative experiences in Calgary's underground music scene to building an authentic creative life and collaborative community on the West Coast.
Listeners will enjoy honest insights into staying hopeful amid political and personal upheavals, the healing power of shrinking your world, and why showing up for others—even when capacity feels low—can be transformative. The duo gets delightfully nerdy over David Lynch, swap tales of civic engagement, and discuss the meaning of friendship, the value of being an active community member, and the simple productivity hack known as "grilled cheese theory."
Key topics include:
* Digital minimalism and managing social media addiction
* Building queer/trans arts communities and the ethos behind Beautiful Trash magazine
* Transitioning artistic styles and identities across provinces
* Making and maintaining friendships as an adult
* Reframing self-worth, hope, and happiness in challenging times
* The differences (and surprises) between Vancouver and Calgary queer/art scenes
* Why showing up (to your friend's gigs, to community meetings, or with a home-cooked meal) matters
Whether you're searching for practical advice on fostering community or simply need a reminder to read that book your friend lent you, this episode is packed with relatable stories and inspiration for anyone seeking to be a better friend—to themselves and others.
Read Beautiful Trash HERE [https://linktr.ee/trashcan.media?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAae0rI9nJ6bPNDCmhnbVGNmEZSLjJOxLiSt5qhjPx0pYIxvw7T0jz_YQbFn5VQ_aem_citNK2UtnrOQxSDTpk6lBg]
Listen to Magda's music [https://open.spotify.com/artist/3vd8YKhEQU1Py2Qy3VWrpz?si=2zlEe0ZoT56YGSPqZb8gtA]
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Friendless
Are you feeling lonely or struggling to make friends? You're not alone. In 'Friendless,' host James Avramenko explores the ups and downs of friendship, the challenges of making new connections, and the impact of social isolation on our mental health. Each episode, James talks to people from all walks of life who have experienced friendship struggles and share their stories of triumph and perseverance. From overcoming shyness to navigating social anxiety, 'Friendless' offers practical tips and empathetic advice to help you build meaningful connections and find your community. Join James as he explores the complex world of human connection and the power of friendship.
