In this conversation, Carl Paoli and Lydia Barrington discuss their relationship and impact on each other's lives. Lydia shares her journey of finding her place in the fitness industry and struggling to fit in. She talks about the pivotal moments that led her to start her own business and the evolution of her coaching style. Lydia emphasizes the importance of authenticity and communication in her work. She also shares her personal transformation and the power of embracing her true self. Lydia Barrington shares her journey of overcoming body image issues and finding true strength and fulfillment through strength training. She emphasizes the importance of thriving and feeling physically and mentally strong. Lydia discusses her approach to creating a playbook for sustainable thriving, including a morning routine, non-negotiables like training and food, and finding balance in work and personal life. She also talks about working with her partner on projects and the excitement for her upcoming Stronger You Challenge. Lydia's mission is to inspire, educate, and empower women to be unapologetically themselves. Takeaways Finding your place in the fitness industry can be a journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance. Authenticity and communication are vital to building meaningful connections with clients. Embracing your true self and empowering others to do the same can lead to personal and professional growth. Success in coaching comes from a combination of physical training and personal development. Thriving involves feeling strong, having energy, and maintaining a balanced mind. Losing your period and experiencing physical and mental distress can be a sign that your body is not thriving. Creating a playbook for thriving involves prioritizing self-care, setting non-negotiables, and finding balance in work and personal life. Strength training can help women feel empowered and confident, focusing on the feeling rather than the physique. Here are the links for the Stronger You Challenge and We Do Calisthenics!!✌🏼 Stronger You Challenge - https://coachlydia.co.nz/8-weeks-stronger-you-challenge We Do Calisthenics - https://wedocalisthenics.com/ 00:00 Introduction and Gratitude01:15 The Beginning of Their Relationship05:00 Early Life and the Struggle to Fit In06:34 Losing and Finding Herself09:20 The Rollercoaster of Emotions14:14 Stages of Evolution and Finding Her Niche20:20 Her Current Business and Programs22:52 Success in Coaching and Communication Style25:50 Transformation and Empowerment37:52 The Importance of Thriving40:39 Working with a Partner on Projects43:55 Excitement for the Stronger You Challenge51:14 The North Star Mission: Inspiring, Educating, and Empowering Women01:12:08 Closing Remarks