Shame 

Hackupy Scham CO2 Fußabdruck Seth Godin

"What did I do to deserve this?"

Reward and Punishment

instead of WOW this is amazing

positivity vs negativity

churches and religion

the bible is like Tarot Cards

Tools

pass along cultural norms

there 

the problem when you are really good at pattern recognition

and contradiction

and what is NOT working anymore

and what is a blatant lie

exclusion

back then help the less fortunate

together we are faster and better than alone

From the Church as a Shame Machine

we get to

How people project things on neuro diverse people

Writing down all Ideas to talk to Sharon about in a HEY SHARON file :)

all people Sharon talks to in the last weeks are ALL neurodivergent

Label / language yourself

it gives indescribable freedom 

Labeling is something powerful

Being labeled by others is great for Alex

then he learns about himself

giving the labels an AMAZING meaning

projecting something on others

example:

not being self confident

people don't show the inner work

being on the spectrum and having the luxury of being able to develop a sense of self naturally

self

identity

ideology

teachers in montessori

empathy in medical studies

Sharon's Mom: council for extraordinary children

THE HORSE! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SCfndagI_k4

running forward or backward

creativity

Test and Measure Creativity

George Land - NASA 

retain creative capacity

cultural punishment factors

and

losing the pathways in the brain

how can we help other people to reconnect

- meditation

- sport

- taking time and being in nature

reconnect with childhood creativity

behavior modification bracelet

BONUS:

Shame and Church