In this episode, Giles and Alison continue their Enneagram series with Type 2 – The Helper. Type 2s are driven by a deep desire to love and serve others, but they often struggle with an underlying fear of being unworthy of love if they aren’t needed. Their generosity and warmth are beautiful gifts, yet their tendency to suppress their own needs can lead to burnout, resentment, and an unhealthy attachment to affirmation.
Giles and Alison explore what motivates Type 2s, how their servant-hearted nature can be both a blessing and a burden, and how they can move from striving for love to resting in the truth that they are already deeply loved by God. They discuss biblical examples of Type 2s, the unique challenges they face, and spiritual disciplines that help them grow—including centering prayer, fasting from over-serving, and learning to receive love without conditions.
If you’re a Type 2 or love someone who is, this episode will provide practical insights into how to support, encourage, and walk alongside them as they embrace a life of love—without needing to earn it.
Resources:
Self to Lose, Self to Find by Marilyn Vancil
The Sacred Enneagramby Christopher L. Heuertz