“And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good.”
-- John Steinbeck, East of Eden
“Shame is always relational. Be cautious not to shame yourself because parental shame influences every interaction you're going to have with your child. It will influence how you communicate with them. It will influence the way you express love to them.
…When you give love without shame, they know they're loved. But when you parent with your shame, they will feel that there's something off and you will feel like there's something off. So if you're stuck with shame, make sure you deal with it.”
— Dr. Kevin Skinner
(From this week’s episode)
This week we deal with why we experience shame, why it hurts us, our homes, and how we can actually start to remove it from ourselves and our relationships. Please join us!
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