How often do you feel like throwing in the towel when you hit a dating setback. Mismatches, lackluster conversations, ghosting – these obstacles can feel like the end of the road. If you’re at the point where looking for love in midlife seems like too much trouble, don’t give up – tune in! If you’re stuck in a dating rut or overwhelmed by the process, take heart. There is a different way to approach your search for connection. From using the dating apps to your advantage to moving past the self-sabotage, Nancy is here to tell you how you can show up for yourself, take control of your dating experience, and manifest the love story you want and deserve. How to keep momentum when dating feels like a chore — Nancy shares two stories of coaching clients and their struggles with dating apps, losing interest, and feeling like the whole process is a waste of time. The solution? Treat your dating journey like a project, with persistent effort over time. Small, intentional actions add up to big results! Don’t let self-sabotage hold you back — Taking rejection or slow progress personally can lead to a crushing wave of self-doubt. Just remember, these dating experiences are never a reflection of your worth or lovability. Once you let go of this mindset trap, you can move forward with clarity and confidence. Why the long game matters in midlife dating — It’s possible to embody a relaxed approach to dating. Nancy shares how one of her clients is taking her time, with no urgency, and embracing every step at her own pace. Finding Love doesn’t need a stressful deadline, and this episode explores how to shift your mindset to prioritize self-discovery and intention. If dating in midlife feels overwhelming or unproductive, this episode is your guide to regaining focus, staying motivated, and embracing the process.