Are you dating the same type of person over and over, with the same disappointing results? It’s not just bad luck, it’s a pattern. And you can learn to break it. I had a chance to sit down with relationship coach, author, and host of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast, Roy Biancalana. We explored one of the biggest traps in dating and love: repeating the same emotional patterns without even realizing it. Roy calls it “Relationship Groundhog Day”, where you attract the same kind of partner, fall into all-too-familiar drama and dysfunction, and then wonder why things never seem to change. But here's the truth: it's not about luck, or the apps, or where you live. It's about your inner shape, and what you’re unconsciously attracting. Here’s what we unpack in this episode: How your childhood plays a big role in your adult dating life. Why the Law of Attraction is always working, whether you want it to or not! The unconscious reasons you might be drawn to “projects” or emotionally unavailable partners. What it actually looks like to do the work (hint: it’s not just journaling). How to finally break free of the old patterns and experience the love you truly want. Roy doesn’t sugarcoat anything, but he does offer hope, clarity, and a path forward. If you’re ready to stop blaming your luck and start shifting your shape, this is the episode to listen to.