
In this episode, host Brooke introduces Ms. Hopkins, an experienced clinical social worker and Director of Learning Resources at Dr. Ross Greene's nonprofit Lives in the Balance. They discuss the Collaborative and Proactive Solutions (CPS) model, which focuses on understanding and solving the underlying problems causing concerning behaviors in children. The conversation emphasizes the importance of empathy, partnership, and proactively solving problems to build self-awareness and self-regulation. They further explain the different plans (A, B, C) for dealing with unmet expectations and highlight various resources available for parents, including free online materials, training sessions, and Dr. Greene's books. The episode showcases practical strategies and the importance of involving both verbal and non-verbal children in problem-solving collaboratively.
00:00 Empathy and Understanding in Parenting
01:32 Introduction to the Episode
02:56 Meet Ms. Hopkins: Expert in Challenging Behaviors
04:37 Understanding Collaborative and Proactive Solutions (CPS)
07:56 Behavior as Communication: The Upstream Model
10:30 Empowering Parents and Children
12:44 The Importance of Collaboration in Problem Solving
17:06 Identifying Skills and Unsolved Problems
22:39 Collaborating with Verbal and Non-Verbal Children
26:23 Challenges of Communicating with Kids
28:07 Offering Choices and Using Visuals
29:48 Building Trusting Relationships
32:46 The Collaborative and Proactive Solutions Model
35:50 Plan B and Other Parenting Strategies
43:42 Supporting Non-Speaking Children
45:53 Resources and Final ThoughtsResources
Plan B Cheat: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1qsFYXEv1j9jgEH_9S6FvXlUX810tZ2ls/view?usp=drive_linkDrilling Cheat: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1uDg5Jsm1UbfiYXkKQwBhBcmD3Yw6cto1/view?usp=drive_link
Dr. Greene’s Books
The Explosive Child
Lost at School
Raising Human Beings:Creating a Collaborative Partnership with Your Child
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