“The reality you’re in now can literally not be the reality you’re in in six months.” Topics Discussed: Breaking free from infertility negativity and victim mode How joy, peace, and surrender impact fertility outcomes The role of cellular health, gut healing, and emotional well-being Intuition as a superpower in conception and birth Shifting subconscious patterns and nervous system regulation “When you lighten up, you create more space—and that’s where miracles can happen.” Hello Beautiful Souls, Monica here… If you’ve been caught in the loop of endless failed cycles, heavy negativity, and feeling like life is on pause until that positive pregnancy test shows up, this episode is your wake-up call. We’re talking about the trap of victim mode and the invisible cost of living in a constant state of lack. Because let’s be honest, you can have the supplements, the protocols, the perfect diet, and still be stuck if your nervous system and subconscious are hijacked by fear. Think of it like rewinding the same VHS tape over and over—it’s scratched, it’s stuck, and you’re not getting a new ending until you stop pressing play on the old story. When you begin shifting even 1% toward joy, peace, creativity, and living a life that lights you up—everything changes. Your body feels safer, your energy expands, and yes, your fertility can follow suit. This isn’t about perfection or pretending everything’s okay. It’s about consciously creating moments of freedom, love, and alignment, even in the thick of TTC. If you’re ready to drop the control freak spiral, reclaim your intuition, and open space for something radically different, this is the conversation that could flip your entire journey on its head. Press play and let’s dive in. “Intuition and discernment are your ultimate superpowers when it comes to fertility.” Timestamps: 02:47 The power of letting go of obsessing over your fertility and living life fully. 06:20 How shifting your life and making it easier can transform your fertility journey.  09:50 The unexpected role of joy and play in conception and why your reality can look completely different in six months.  12:47 How to protect your peace and listen to your intuition to shorten your journey and save your sanity. 15:53 How intuition protects you during medical interventions that can cause traumatic experiences.  “You don’t need perfection—just a little bit better, a little more joy, and a whole lot more trust.” Full Transcript Over on the Blog: https://www.findingfertility.co/blog/finding-fertility-pregnancy-success-over-35-with-ainsley-part-two  Connect with Ainsley: IG: https://www.instagram.com/ainsleymoir/ Let's Do This Together 💚 Monica Message me DREAMS to access your free Fertility Breakthrough Session: Email: monica@findingfertility.co [not .com 🤣] Instagram: https://bit.ly/FindingFertilityIG  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findingfertility TikTok: https://bit.ly/FindingFertilityTikTok    🌺 Book Your Fertility Breakthrough Session Today here: https://calendly.com/findingfertility/discoveryconsultation?month=2022-10   🎙 Subscribe on your favourite podcast platform:⁣⁠⁣⁣⁣ Apple: http://bit.ly/FINDINGFERTILITYAPPLE⁣⁠⁣⁣⁣ Stitcher: http://bit.ly/FindingFertilitySTITCHER Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0BMtwCvdyR4aJyfSfcKh6i   🍍HELP SUPPORT THE SHOW🍍 You can shop for your favourite fertility support products over on: Seeking Health:https://bit.ly/FFSeekingHealth & Amazon:http://bit.ly/FindingFertilityAmazon   Anything written or said about health and diet are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified professional. Product recommendations are based on what I used during my infertility journey or wish I had.