Fight the patriarchy. Get Rich.™
Join money expert Tori Dunlap every Tuesday as she guides you on how to make more, spend less, and feel financially confident in a world run by rich white men. Through solo episodes and special guest interviews, you’ll walk away with resources to get, save, and grow money to gain financial freedom and kick some patriarchal ass at the same time.
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Fight the patriarchy. Get Rich.™
Join money expert Tori Dunlap every Tuesday as she guides you on how to make more, spend less, and feel financially confident in a world run by rich white men. Through solo episodes and special guest interviews, you’ll walk away with resources to get, save, and grow money to gain financial freedom and kick some patriarchal ass at the same time.
It took me three years — and more than half a million dollars — to learn this lesson.
In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the biggest business mistake I’ve ever made: ignoring my gut, following “expert” advice, and paying the price. We’re diving into what happens when you give away your power for credibility, why trusting yourself is the best business strategy, and how to rebuild self-trust after a big mistake.
If you’ve ever been told, “That’s just how it’s done,” this episode will remind you that sometimes the best thing you can do is trust your instincts — even when it goes against the norm.
You’ll learn:
Why “industry standard” doesn’t always mean right for you
The true cost of outsourcing your power
How to rebuild self-trust in your money and business decisions
In this episode:
00:00 — The mistake that cost me $500,000
03:00 — What it means to sign with an agency or network (and why it’s risky)
05:00 — Losing transparency and control in my own business
07:00 — When credibility costs more than it’s worth
08:30 — The moment I realized I’d given away 40% of my revenue
10:00 — The danger of doing things just because “that’s how it’s done”
13:30 — What running everything in-house has taught me
14:00 — The deeper lesson: self-trust, transparency, and ownership
16:00 — How to support independent creators and shows like this one
17:00 — Learning from mistakes without shame
17:30 — The challenge: where can you trust yourself more?
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Financial Feminist
Fight the patriarchy. Get Rich.™
Join money expert Tori Dunlap every Tuesday as she guides you on how to make more, spend less, and feel financially confident in a world run by rich white men. Through solo episodes and special guest interviews, you’ll walk away with resources to get, save, and grow money to gain financial freedom and kick some patriarchal ass at the same time.