In this inspiring episode of the Fathers of the Future Podcast, host Luke Kayyem sits down with his coaching client and friend, Jesse Mufasa Goldsmith, to discuss Jesse’s remarkable transformation. Previously known as "Big Cat," a nickname tied to his 385-pound frame and party-heavy lifestyle, Jesse shares how he shed 135 pounds, embraced sobriety, and completed the Boston Marathon. The journey began 18 months ago after a serendipitous meeting with Luke on a golf course, followed by a pivotal moment of hitting rock bottom. Jesse’s story highlights his shift from a self-destructive identity to one of resilience and purpose, embodied in his new persona, "Mufasa," inspired by his commitment to being a strong, protective father to his daughter, Sophie.
Jesse recounts key milestones, including adopting intermittent fasting, quitting alcohol, and training for two half-marathons and the Boston Marathon, all while overcoming a relapse and battling physical and mental challenges. With Luke’s guidance, Jesse rebuilt his confidence, rekindled his competitive drive as a commercial real estate broker, and inspired his family and colleagues. The episode culminates in Jesse’s emotional Boston Marathon finish, a testament to his dedication and the support of his community, leaving listeners with a powerful message about transformation, legacy, and inspiring others.
Guest: Jesse Mufasa Goldsmith, commercial real estate broker at Newmark, former college tennis player, and father to Sophie.
Key Themes:
Identity Shift: From "Big Cat," a persona tied to excess and self-destruction, to "Mufasa," symbolizing strength and protection for his daughter.
Transformation Journey: Losing 135 pounds naturally, quitting alcohol, and completing the Boston Marathon.
Rock Bottom Moment: A wake-up call during a daddy-daughter trip in Salt Lake City, leading to sobriety and commitment to change.
Coaching Impact: Luke Kayyem’s non-judgmental approach helped Jesse rebuild his life through small, consistent changes.
Boston Marathon: Ran for the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, raising $17,000, and finished in 5:27:55, just two minutes before the sweep.
Highlights:
Meeting Luke on a golf course in Flagstaff, facilitated by mutual friend Riyadh Naza.
Overcoming a relapse during a golf trip, recommitting to sobriety and training.
Emotional family reunion in Boston, with Jesse’s parents, wife, and daughter supporting him.
Upcoming documentary, Road to Boston, focusing on mental health awareness, set for release around July 4, 2025, on YouTube.
Resources:
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