In this episode of Family Matters with Instructor Mike, we challenge the popular but developmentally flawed approach to teaching empathy in early childhood. Too often, children are taught to mimic emotional responses before they’ve developed the agency, problem-solving skills, or self-awareness required for authentic empathy.

Instructor Mike breaks down the proper developmental sequence—from autonomy to initiative to emotional regulation—and explains why empathy must grow from within, not from adult-imposed scripts. Drawing on Erikson’s psychosocial stages and Vygotsky’s learning theory, we explore how real empathy emerges when children first learn to trust themselves, solve problems, and act independently.

Featuring practical examples, historical insight (including Harriet Tubman’s legacy), and direct parenting strategies, this episode helps caregivers reclaim childhood from emotional programming and replace it with meaningful, skill-based growth.

Whether you’re a parent, educator, or youth advocate, this episode equips you to raise helpers, not performers.