In this episode of Family Matters with Instructor Mike, we challenge one of the most widespread yet misunderstood parenting habits: demanding accountability from children who were never taught the skills to succeed in the first place.

Using developmental science, real-life classroom strategies, and powerful legal insights—including the U.S. Supreme Court case Ohio v. Reiner (2001)—Instructor Mike breaks down why forced confessions are not signs of maturity, but symptoms of under-training and psychological compliance.

You’ll learn:

• Why admissions like “I broke the egg” don’t mean what you think they do

• How to teach accountability through skill—not shame

• How premature guilt trains kids to become unintentional witnesses against themselves

• Why observation, problem-solving, and reflection should always come before blame

• How to raise children who know how to fix the problem—without fearing the truth

This episode is for every parent, educator, and community leader who wants to build kids who think, not just confess.