In this episode I talk about my relationship with my dad and how that’s played a huge role in my toxic relationships. I always considered myself a daddy’s girl and I thought I didn’t have any “daddy issues” until I started looking at my previous relationships and the patterns that continued to play out. I didn’t want to see how my relationship with my dad was the same one I was creating with men. I would abandon myself in order to be “chosen” and I would lie to myself in order to not be “too much”. I didn’t know who I was because I was so used to pretending and in order to heal this I had to be willing to look at how my dad played a role. I had to be willing to take my dad off the pedestal I had him on and put myself on the pedestal instead. I also had to take responsibility for abandoning myself instead of putting masks on and pretending to be someone I wasn’t, like trying to be “chill” when my feelings are hurt. This has all helped me see how I can create a new reality where I actually get what I want and am worthy of. I hope this episode helps you see yourself and helps you take your power back. 🤍