This conversation dives into the highs, lows, and hard truths of RB's journey through homeschooling, patriarchal systems, and his path to healing. We discuss his early education in Pennsylvania, the move to Kansas, and the gendered disparities in educational investment he witnessed as the oldest of five siblings. RB opens up about the unintended privileges he received, his culture shock entering college and the workforce, and how he later found healing through therapy, community, and authentic adult friendships. Topics like male friendship, trauma recovery, and starting a coworking space in Texas also make this an episode full of raw honesty and powerful insights.
Key Takeaways:
Homeschooling looked vastly different in Pennsylvania vs. Kansas, with the latter having virtually no oversight.
Patriarchal religious beliefs led to unequal educational opportunities for RB and his sisters.
Post-homeschool life brought intense culture shock, but also personal and professional growth.
RB found healing through therapy, adult friendship, and creating Bastrop Coworking in Texas.
Real success is about embracing curiosity, connection, and lifelong learning, not replicating rigid ideals.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview
01:18 Guest Introduction: RB's Homeschool Experience
02:31 Early Homeschooling in Pennsylvania
08:27 Transition to Homeschooling in Kansas
16:26 Challenges and Gender Disparities in Homeschooling
30:37 Post-Homeschool Life and Culture Shock
37:23 Reflecting on Religious Upbringing
38:51 College Life and Career Goals
43:50 Homeschooling and Socialization
46:02 Friendships and Community Building
51:17 Challenges and Growth in Adulthood
54:18 The Importance of Social Connections
01:07:17 Homeschooling Reflections and Advice
01:09:31 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
Connect with RB
Bastrop Coworking: https://www.instagram.com/bastropcowork/
RB on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flyerbrown/
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