TRIGGER WARNING: Substance Abuse, Race, Self-Worth, Cheating   Hello you beautiful soul and welcome to the Evolve with Evelyn podcast. Today we’re going into part 2 of my most toxic relationships. In this episode, we talk about another one of my high school boyfriends however, this is a lesson on settling. We dive into settling for no labels, dependency on a person and substances, healing, race idealisms, and so much more.    In this episode you will learn: Seeking safety (again) in a person outside of me Settling for someone that has commitment issues and refuses labels  How smoking led to feeling accepted  What happens when a relationship is based around substance use The start of my cannabis addiction and dependency started Why we settle, ignore our desires and stay with someone who doesn’t want what we do Navigating through the healing process after an unlabeled relationship break-up or ending without closure What happens after the healing The generational trauma triggers that come up when a break-up is motivated by race  A reminder for you   Building Generational Wealth 4-Week Intensive: Join Now Evolve with Evelyn: Instagram