In this message, Pastor Joseph challenges us to examine our words and their impact on our lives and relationships. The key takeaway is the importance of being 'quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry' (James 1:19). This wisdom isn't just about verbal communication, but extends to our digital interactions too - our texts, posts, and online behavior. By slowing down and considering our words carefully, we can avoid unnecessary conflicts and build stronger relationships. This message encourages us to 'check ourselves before we wreck ourselves', prompting us to examine our hearts and motivations before we speak or act.