Today on Embrace the Mud, we’re diving into one of the most harmful beliefs we can hold—the idea that something or someone should be different than they are. This common belief leads to frustration, dissatisfaction, and emotional resistance. In this episode, we explore why this mindset keeps us stuck in a cycle of tension and suffering, and how letting go of unrealistic expectations brings greater peace, clarity, and freedom. We’ll also discuss practical steps for noticing when this belief creeps in, how to shift your mindset to align with the truth, and how to embrace the present moment as it is.