In part two we continue to hear how India and her team manage more than one child and their feelings all at once. India offers specific games and approaches that ensure all the children are acknowledged and held as needed. Her profound stories point to the wisdom of children and notably her own daughter’s capacity to be sensitive and attuned to the needs of others. And so we all shout what about sibling rivalry? Yes it happens at times in most households. India’s calm trust of the principles of Aware Parenting gives her the capacity to offer consent based solutions to get to the root of rivalry dynamics. So inspired and grateful for these conversations.
To find out about Vicki Plomer’s latest offerings visit: www.vickiplomer.com
To contact Sara Devoy and find out more about her work contact@saradevoycraniosacral.com
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In part two we continue to hear how India and her team manage more than one child and their feelings all at once. India offers specific games and approaches that ensure all the children are acknowledged and held as needed. Her profound stories point to the wisdom of children and notably her own daughter’s capacity to be sensitive and attuned to the needs of others. And so we all shout what about sibling rivalry? Yes it happens at times in most households. India’s calm trust of the principles of Aware Parenting gives her the capacity to offer consent based solutions to get to the root of rivalry dynamics. So inspired and grateful for these conversations.
To find out about Vicki Plomer’s latest offerings visit: www.vickiplomer.com
To contact Sara Devoy and find out more about her work contact@saradevoycraniosacral.com
Ep. 21 Rewards and punishments and why they don't work
Embodying Aware Parenting
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1 year ago
Ep. 21 Rewards and punishments and why they don't work
Following on from our chat about PRAISE we reflect upon the drawbacks of rewards and punishments that Aware Parenting identifies. Although children can certainly be taught to ‘behave’ with the help of rewards and rewards don’t harm children in the way that punishment does, a child can feel punished when she fails to be rewarded. Dr Solter refers to research in her writings that shows how de-motivating rewards can be for children. Aletha asks us to consider how self-focussed reward seeking can be and suggests other ways that build in loving connection.
To find out about Vicki Plomer’s latest offerings visit: www.vickiplomer.com
To contact Sara Devoy and find out more about her work contact@saradevoycraniosacral.com
Embodying Aware Parenting
In part two we continue to hear how India and her team manage more than one child and their feelings all at once. India offers specific games and approaches that ensure all the children are acknowledged and held as needed. Her profound stories point to the wisdom of children and notably her own daughter’s capacity to be sensitive and attuned to the needs of others. And so we all shout what about sibling rivalry? Yes it happens at times in most households. India’s calm trust of the principles of Aware Parenting gives her the capacity to offer consent based solutions to get to the root of rivalry dynamics. So inspired and grateful for these conversations.
To find out about Vicki Plomer’s latest offerings visit: www.vickiplomer.com
To contact Sara Devoy and find out more about her work contact@saradevoycraniosacral.com
