In today’s episode, Lucy shares how true healing happens—and why relationships are God’s favorite classroom.
Drawing on her work as a licensed counselor and soul-care mentor, she lays out a Jesus-centered blueprint: Jesus heals the deep places, and we choose—moment by moment—to agree with what He’s done and walk it out, especially at home.
You’ll hear a powerful story about breaking a shame spiral through blessing, a live coaching example of saying YES to marriage and NO to sin, and a clarifying look at two very different kinds of suffering. If you’re hungry for freedom and the interpersonal skills to carry it, this one’s for you.
Highlights:
Why relationships “bump our coffee cups” and reveal how healed we really are
The fastest path to change: Jesus heals; we stay free by agreeing with His truth
When accountability feeds shame vs. when blessing calls out destiny
Coaching case study: honoring your husband while refusing sin
Two kinds of suffering: partnering with God vs. resisting Him
Why a container (six months) helps you stabilize freedom and make new reactions your default
Coaching in action:
When pressured to participate in sin, here’s a Jesus-honoring script Lucy coached a client to discern for herself:
“Here’s this vulnerability.”
“I want to stay married.”
“I want to honor, respect you, and love you well.”
“I believe that I can.”
“I want a marriage focused on just us.”
“I want to be treated well—spoken to with kindness.”
Scripture to meditate on: 1 Peter 2:8 — Jesus, “a stone of stumbling and a rock of offense.”
(Consider how choosing Him in suffering forms an unbreakable bond.)
Agreement practice: Ask, “Lord, what truth did You speak over me that I need to agree with today?” Write it on a card. When old patterns tug, speak that truth out loud.
Blessing over shame: Instead of telling him to “get it together,” speak the identity and future God sees—then pray it privately and consistently. Watch what shifts.
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Shareable quote: “Jesus sets you free; your daily agreement keeps you free—especially at home.”