I need to reiterate that you don't owe anyone shit and no one owes you shit. You really have to accept people for who they are and if you can't that's absolutely ok. I had a fishing analogy that I cut from the episode: "A fisherman can't pull a catfish out of the waters and want it to change itself into a shark, or a shark into tuna, or tuna into mackerel. Why do we now think that we can bring someone into our live's and have them change for us? Granted, it does happen sometimes but it shouldn't be expected. One thing a good fisherman knows is where to go fishing for the type of fish he wants. Go where the fish you want swim and if you happen to catch something you don't want, throw it back." Feelings are hard to escape and again, I'm not against the friend zone area I just believe that being there is a choice. You decide ultimately where you expel your energy. If you don't like the conditions of your surroundings, find better ones.