It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
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It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
Most of us only see the distance to our ideal. In this episode we look at using our progress to propel us. We cover: • The framework of “the gap and the gain” and why it matters • Why focusing on the gap creates more frustration at home and work • Simple daily practice to shift your brain toward the gain • Two situations where “focusing on the gain” can backfire—and what to do instead Practical takeaways: • End each day by writing down three wins—big or small. • Measure progress backward, aga...
Durable Dad with Tommy Geary
It’s not the outburst that matters—it’s what’s driving it. Highlights: • The text from Tommy’s mom that exposed how quickly frustration can surface • Why anger is a part of you—not all of you • How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps men understand their reactions • What anger is really after • The link between frustration and how we parent • What changes when you pause and get curious about your reaction • Simple ways to quiet your “angry part” before it takes the wheel Takeaways: Sto...
